Social rules: the more people the dinner, the less truth
Dinner is an important way for people to socialize. Many people are keen to participate in various dinner parties. They believe that attending dinner parties can gain information and expand their network of contacts. Some people who organize dinner parties also like to invite many people at one time to achieve the greatest social effect. But the reality is: the more people the dinner, the less truth. Today we will talk about this topic.
- A dinner party with a small number of people has a relatively high density of information
Some people think that a dinner party with a large number of people can meet more people, but this is not the case. When there are many people, the number of times that people can communicate directly with each other is greatly reduced, and only two polite sentences will dilute the social effect. When most people chat, they release information selectively. A lot of content is said in a way that is beneficial to you, and there may be some things that are said, but most of the details are deliberately handled. However, in the dinner parties attended by a few people, there is more direct communication between people, and there are relatively more truths, and the density of information is relatively high.
- The more people there are, the more scruples people have to speak.
When two people chat together, there is no need to worry about the third person knowing that the safety factor is the highest. Whether or not to tell the truth depends on the friendship and mutual trust between the two people. Three people chatting, the truth is half less than two people. The more people there are, the more people's standpoints must be considered when speaking, and one cannot offend some people in the dinner just because of one sentence. Participating in a dinner party is for social gain, and offending people is worth the loss. Therefore, everyone chooses to speak in a gentle and polite way, and what they say is innocuous.
- In a crowded and lively dinner party, the truth is behind the dinner party
Anyone who often attends dinner parties knows that in the dinner party, we don't talk about serious business, but only talk about drinking and feelings. When the dinner is over, find a chance to talk about things alone. Dinner is just a way for them to test and approach each other. In a crowded dinner party, what you said is impossible to keep secret. Someone will definitely spread it to you, and they may deliberately take it out of context and distort your meaning. Therefore, during the dinner, everyone was polite and talked about light and pleasant topics. The truth is behind the dinner.
The more people there are, the less truth there is. This also reminds you to speak carefully when attending a crowded dinner party. If you want to make real friends, don't expect to be in a relationship at dinner, but support each other in doing things. Dear friends, what do you think of this article's views, let's exchange it together.