Social rules: talk more, laugh more, have more emotions, is the performance of low emotional intelligence
I don't know since when, everyone began to pay special attention to the word "emotional intelligence", especially in interpersonal communication. Many people are labeled as having low emotional intelligence, and many people are praised as having high emotional intelligence. In fact, if you can be considered high emotional intelligence, although there is a clear direction, there is no clear standard. However, everyone should be able to name some characteristics of what constitutes low emotional intelligence. The topic we are going to talk about today is: talking more, laughing more and more emotions, is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence. Let's analyze it in detail.
- How much you speak should be in moderation, and if you speak too much, you must keep in mind
If a person is reticent and unwilling to communicate with others all day long, it is certainly not considered high emotional intelligence. But if a person is eloquent at all times, saying what should be said and what should not be said, it will definitely be regarded as low emotional intelligence. But there are many such people. They especially like the pleasure of speaking heartily, and they like to show off their tongue and knowledge. If you talk too much, you will say the wrong thing to a large extent, which will naturally have a bad influence on yourself. Also, talking too much can take other people's time and opportunities, making them unpleasant. A person should speak in moderation, know what to say, and know when to shut up.
- If you laugh too much, you lose seriousness and seriousness
If you laugh once in a while, it must be "You look so good when you smile, like the sunshine in spring". Smiles are beautiful, of course, but you can't just smile. A smile is only one of your attitudes towards the world, you need to have other attitudes as well. Look at the executives of your company, do you usually laugh a lot? If he talks to you with a smile every day, and jokes with you every now and then, will you still care so much about his words? Some people smile all over their faces as soon as they talk to others, which is of course good when they first met, but in a long-term relationship, your seriousness and solemnity are more important. Look at the people around you who are smiling every day, do they attract you more than those who are serious?
- Controlling your emotions is more important than the above two points
Say a few more words and laugh a few more times. Although it may not be mature enough, it is still much better than those who are emotionally erratic. When interacting with people, you must control your emotions. Your emotional willfulness may bring about a loss that can never be recovered. Some people lose their temper when they disagree, some complain when they encounter difficulties, and some people's emotions are sometimes sunny, sometimes cloudy and rainy, all of which show that they can't control their emotions. Your usual mood should be stable, not so colorful. The adult world does not allow your emotional willfulness.