Social rules: switch a circle in three or five years, your network will be more quality
Everyone wants more friends and better connections. A good network can greatly promote the development of your career. Some people have only one stable circle, and only a few people they often interact with; some people have many circles and can switch between circles freely. If you stay in a circle for a long time, it is difficult to have a strong network. The topic we are going to talk about today is: switch a circle in three to five years, your network will be more quality. Let's analyze it in detail.
- Staying in a circle for a long time will not make the circle more valuable
Some people have worked in the same company for many years, in the same industry and the same job. His social circles are all colleagues in the company or people in the same industry. After a few years of Chinese New Year, he was already familiar with most of the people in this circle. After his position in this circle has stabilized, what he will do in the future is to simply maintain the relationship, and there will be no further expansion of personal connections. If you stay in a circle for a long time, your vision will be limited to a certain field, and you will get very little different information. It can be said that at this time your career has begun to decline.
- With different circles, you have higher social value
If you only have one circle, and the people in the circle are familiar with each other, then there is not much difference in this circle with you or not. You can't leave this circle, but this circle can leave you at any time. When you have different circles and become the hub of information exchange between the two circles, or the link of business communication, then you are very important and unique to both circles. You are needed to communicate between several circles, and you need to go through someone who finds people in other circles to do things. You are in a very favorable position socially. At this time, you can jump out of a circle at any time, and you can freely switch the circle you are in.
- Meet new friends, don't forget old friends, and pay attention to maintaining relationships after leaving
In three to five years, a circle can basically be determined, and future exchanges are to consolidate and maintain. Too much time, and the communication is not deep enough; too much time, your social efficiency will become very low. It is more appropriate to switch a circle in three or five years. Of course, make new friends, don't forget old friends, don't abandon the original circle just because you have a new circle, but should pay attention to always maintain the relationship with the original circle. In this way, your network will continue to expand, and you will become more valuable. Someone must say that the circle can be changed at will, this depends on your ability and planning, and now the popular is cross-border communication.