Social rules: People who like to chat in WeChat groups are lonely
WeChat is an important social tool, and many people are active on WeChat every day. Although WeChat groups are not as popular as they used to be, there are still many people who like to chat in groups. Nowadays, WeChat groups are generally in a state of "small groups are active, large groups are silent". But there are also people who like to chat in large groups and are very active. The topic we are going to talk about today is: People who like to chat in WeChat groups are all lonely. Let's analyze the reasons below.
- People who like to chat in WeChat groups without very close friends
WeChat groups mainly refer to groups with many people. The chat in the group is one sentence from you, one sentence from me, very messy. Anyone who wants to chat can participate, and anyone who doesn't want to chat can withdraw directly. And every word you talk, so many people in the group are watching. Therefore, there will be no in-depth words in the WeChat group, but some gags, laughing and joking. People who like to chat like this are often because there is no one who can chat in depth, so they can only make fun. He doesn't have very close friends and can only choose this way of chatting.
- People who like to chat in WeChat groups are lonely in reality
Many people don't like to chat in large groups, because the cluttered environment in the group makes it impossible to talk about a topic seriously at all. People who like to chat in large groups are generally bored. He is very lonely in reality, has few friends, and can't find anyone to play with. Participate in chats in groups to cover up your inner loneliness. Picking up the mobile phone is a lively world, chatting in a vast world; putting down the mobile phone, he still has to face the loneliness alone.
- The liveliness of WeChat groups is false, and in reality, dinner parties with many people are also routines
The topics of chat in the large group are very casual, and the people chatting are not distracted. No matter how hilarious it is, it's all fake. No one regards anyone as a friend, just a sense of participation. This is very similar to social networking in real life. This is often the case for dinner parties with a large number of people. Everyone talks politely to each other, and occasionally can find a topic, and quickly grab this topic and chat for a long time. When the dinner was over, everyone was just familiar with each other, and the relationship between everyone remained unchanged. On the other hand, small WeChat groups and small dinner parties often have better social effects.