Social rules: others add you on WeChat but do not change the remarks, which proves that they have not put you at ease
Open our WeChat friends list, you will find that most of the people you have made notes, usually note the name, but also note the industry or position. But there are always some friends who don't have any notes, can you remember who they are? If there is no chat history, it is difficult for you to remember when this person was added. If you add a person's WeChat, he just passed it without making any remarks, which proves that the other party doesn't take you seriously at all, maybe he just added you because he felt that it was hard to save face. Today we will talk about this topic.
- Adding a remark to a WeChat friend is the beginning of an official relationship between the two
When the two met for the first time, they added WeChat to each other so that they could continue to contact each other in the future. For such unfamiliar friends, the remarks should also be more detailed, such as "General Manager Wang of a certain group", "Car insurance Xiaoming", etc. Sometimes they also mark each other with the scenes they know each other. For example, when two people go to training and study together, they can remark "Teacher Zhang in Hangzhou" and so on. Making a note on WeChat is the beginning of a formal relationship between two people. Because your remarks are a label placed by the other party in your WeChat, making this person different from others and making future exchanges more targeted.
- If the other party does not add any remarks at all, it proves that you have it or not.
If the other party doesn't add a note to you, it means that the other party doesn't take you to heart at all. This kind of situation generally does not happen when the other party takes the initiative to add your WeChat, but when you take the initiative to add the other party, the other party approves your request, and you immediately make a note on WeChat. The other party didn't do anything, just put the phone on it. The other party may think that if you add, just add it, just click to pass, and there will be nothing to find you in the future, there is no need to spend time making notes. If you take the initiative to chat with the other party, then you need to report your family name, otherwise the other party may not know who you are. Of course, there is no need for you to be too conscientious about this, which shows that you do not have much social value, and you have to work hard to improve yourself.
- If you add other people's WeChat, be sure to make a note
If the other party does not make a note for you, you are uncomfortable, so when the other party adds you to WeChat, you should make a note for the other party. This is not only respect for each other, but also lays the foundation for future exchanges. Maybe the other party may not be as good as you now, but how do you know the future development of the other party? It's always good to have one more friend, especially for those who take the initiative to associate with you. If you make notes carefully, you will leave a lot of goodwill to the other party. For example, if you remark the other party's birthday, when you say "Happy Birthday", the other party will definitely be very moved.