Social rules: no matter how good the relationship is, remember that you are you, he is him
Socializing is a compulsory course in everyone's life. Everyone wants to have a lot of very good friends, everyone to share with each other, regardless of you and me. You entered into each other's lives and into each other's hearts. At this time, some people will think that two people have become one, and the relationship is as good as one person. But the topic we are going to talk about today is: no matter how good the relationship is, remember that you are you and he is him. Let's analyze it below.
- No matter how good the relationship is, keep a certain distance and give each other their own space
Some people think that after two people become good friends, everything should be shared. Your friends are my friends, and your business is mine. This may cause interference in the other's life and cause some conflicts. Xiao Wang is a good friend of Xiaohui, and someone asks Xiaohui to do business. Xiaohui was not on the phone and couldn't get through, so Xiao Wang took care of everything and responded for Xiaohui. This made Xiaohui very embarrassed, and the relationship between the two gradually became estranged. No matter how good the relationship is, keep a certain distance and leave space for each other.
- No matter how good the relationship is, it is necessary to distinguish the property, and the brothers clearly settle the account.
No matter how good the relationship between two people is, the property must be distinguished, so that "brothers will settle accounts clearly". Because property is very easy to cause conflicts, you may not feel it when the relationship is particularly harmonious, but once there is a little estrangement, it will break out in a concentrated manner. When two people go to dinner together, no matter how good the relationship is, they should have contacts, so as to achieve fairness in property. It is best not to borrow money from friends. If you have to borrow money, you must write an IOU and agree on a repayment time. When two people do business together, they must sign an agreement in advance to avoid disputes. A relationship can last long only when the money is settled.
- Friends help each other but are independent from each other, and the relationship can last for a long time
Friends should help each other, especially good friends. But no matter how good the relationship is in time, it cannot be completely dependent on each other. If you ask each other to help you with everything, you are overdrawing your friendship. Even good friends do what they can do on their own. Friends should help each other and be independent from each other. When they were together, they were as close as one person, and after they were separated, they lived their own lives. Only then can the relationship last long.
No matter how good your relationship is with someone, remember that you are you and he is him. You can't replace him, and he can't replace you. You help each other, but you are independent of each other, and that's what makes the relationship last. Dear friends, what do you think of this article, please leave a message to exchange it.