Social rules: keep a low profile and never show off your well-connectedness to others
Relationships are important to everyone and will directly affect career development and happiness in life. Everyone’s network circle is different. Some people have many friends and a wide network of people, and they are greeted wherever they go. Others have a small network circle and it is difficult to do a lot of things. Our topic today is: No matter how big your circle is, never show off how well-connected you are. Let's analyze it below.
- Your network has nothing to do with others, showing off is disgusting
Some people feel that their friends are well-connected and are always looking for opportunities to show off to others. The words that are often said are "I have a strong relationship with so-and-so", "know a so-and-so big man", "a lot of dinner parties" and so on. He thinks such ostentation enhances his identity. In fact, no matter how wide your network is, it has little to do with others, unless you are really capable of helping others. Showing off like this will not add points to yourself, it will only make others feel very disgusted, and it will never destroy your own relationships.
- There are people outside people, maybe many people around you have wider connections than you
You may think that you are well-connected, but you don't know what he has. There are many people who are well-connected, but others never say it. Because others understand that as long as you are often with others, it means that your social status is not much different. Your little sense of superiority doesn't help. Everyone has a different circle of contacts, and maybe your circle is no better than others. You see too much of your own circles and don't understand other people's circles. In this regard, everyone should keep a low profile.
- It doesn’t matter how many people you know, what matters is how many people help you at critical times
It doesn't matter how well-connected you are, it doesn't matter how many people you know if you just eat and drink together. What matters is how much you are willing to help you when you are in trouble, when you want to develop your career. At this time, you will find that the number of contacts is not so important, but the number of friends is important. If two people just know each other, it doesn't really matter. There are less routines for interpersonal communication and more sincerity in treating each other with friends.
No matter how well-connected you are, don't show it off, because it's not necessarily useful, but it will provoke others' resentment. Be low-key and be sincere, and you can get better development. Dear friends, what do you think of this article, please leave a message to exchange it.