Social rules: From these three points, it can be seen that the other party does not regard you as a friend at all
Socializing is a required course for everyone. Everyone has their own social circle, which includes acquaintances and friends. Not everyone in the same circle sees you as a friend, you may just be connected by others. How to distinguish whether people in the same circle consider you a friend? Today we will talk about this topic: from these three points, it can be seen that the other party does not regard you as a friend at all. Let's analyze it below.
- Notify other people when treating guests, but you are the only one left behind
Xiao Wang and some friends formed a small circle, which has a WeChat group. One day, someone in the group suddenly posted a photo of everyone drinking together. In the photo, everyone else in the group is there, but I am missing myself. This time it was Xiaohui's guest. The next day, Xiaohui explained that he forgot to notify Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang remembered that even in the past when Xiaohui treated guests, Xiaohui always asked others to tell him, but never called himself. This all shows that Xiaohui does not regard Xiao Wang as a friend at all. In reality, if you are often left behind by other people's activities, it can only be said that the other person does not consider you a friend.
- When you hold an event, it is just a courtesy, and people never come
Whether the other party regards you as a friend can also be reflected in the activities. When he opened the business, you greeted him and came to congratulate him, but when you opened his business, he just asked others to help him with the ceremony, and no one showed up at all. If it happens once in a while, it's probably because he's busy. But if this is often the case, then you have to consider whether he considers you a friend. Whether getting married, having children, or relocating and opening a business, such a big event needs the support of friends, but he always chooses not to be there, which shows that he doesn't take your business seriously at all.
- When everyone talks together, they always like to refute you
Whether the other party regards you as a friend can also be seen from the usual chat. Everyone chatting together, if he never listens to you carefully, never takes the initiative to talk to you, it means that you are not important to him. If you say something, he always likes to refute you, it means that he is not willing to respect you at all, and does not care about your feelings, the other party does not regard you as a friend. Whether others treat you well or badly will be reflected in every detail of getting along with you. This is what you say, and what you do.