Social Rules: Don't take a stranger's dinner lightly
Dinner is an important form of social interaction. Many people like to participate in all kinds of dinners. It can be said that they are always willing to accept dinners. Some dinner parties can expand interpersonal relationships, let you know more friends, and have always been beneficial to your career development. But not all dinner parties are suitable for you to participate in. If you go to some dinner parties, it will not only help you socialize, but there may also be some kind of risk. The topic we are going to talk about today is: Don't accept a stranger's meal easily. Let's analyze it in detail.
- To participate in any dinner party, you must understand the purpose and personnel of the dinner party
No matter what dinner party you go to, you must try your best to know more about the dinner party. The most important thing is to figure out three questions: who organized the dinner party, what is the purpose, and who will participate. If it is a dinner party with people you are not familiar with at all, then you need to figure out the purpose of the dinner party and the participants. If you do not know the relevant information, it is recommended that you do not participate. If someone asks you in good faith, then this information should let you know. Some people may want to say, how can a stranger invite you? Strangers here refer to people you don't know very well and people you have just contacted through others.
- There may be some routines in the meal of the stranger group
A dinner party without a theme basically does not exist. A dinner party with strangers must be more purposeful. If you go to participate, you may encounter some routines. Some people say they want to invite you, but when you go, you find that you are just a foil and make up the number. Of course, this is not a particularly deep routine. There are also dinner parties where all the participants have rehearsed the script in advance, just waiting for you to join. The dinner party will take some information from your mouth, or just ask you to help with something. Of course, there are deeper routines, and it is inconvenient to elaborate here. All in all, keep in mind that some dinners carry some kind of risk. Of course, most dinners are sincere and should be judged on a case-by-case basis.
- The two sides have preliminary contact and understanding, and then consider the form of the meal
If you are very unfamiliar with someone, it is not appropriate to choose the communication method of the dinner party. A dinner party requires two people to spend a large amount of time for high-frequency social interactions, and if they drink alcohol, they may even say some "deep conversations". Two people who are not familiar with each other can get in touch through some things first. For example, wechat, phone chat, such as stopping to chat a few words on the road, or sharing some information at work, etc. After some contact, the two think that they can communicate with each other further, then they can have a meal and set up a game together.