Social Rules: Don't go to dinner parties you know you'll get drunk
A friend sent an invitation to Xiaohui for a dinner party, and said that he wanted to have a good drink, "if you don't get drunk, you won't go home". Xiaohui immediately found a reason to call off the dinner. His wife asked him, "It's all your friends who attended the dinner, why didn't you go?" Xiaohui said: If you know that you will get drunk when you go there, why do you still go? The topic we are going to talk about today is: Don’t go to dinner parties that you know you will get drunk. Let's analyze the reasons below.
- It has been marked as a dinner party for drinking, which is of little significance
People go to dinner parties, generally not for drinking, but for socializing. Of course drinking is a way of socializing, so many people drink for socializing. But not all dinners are worth going. If you often meet or party with the participants of this dinner, it does not matter whether you go or not, because the usual socialization is enough. Moreover, many dinner parties have been marked for drinking. Everyone is just drinking and chatting together, which is not of much value, and there is no point in going to participate.
- Getting drunk can have unintended consequences
It's nice to be drunk, of course, but getting drunk can have very serious consequences. Not to mention the accident after drinking, only to talk about the adverse effects of drunkenness on social interaction. When people are drunk, they will not choose what to say. Many things that are usually afraid to say or embarrassed to say may be said at this time. This is very destructive to interpersonal communication, and there have been many cases of drinking and breaking up. In addition, the image of drunk people is often unbearable, you will destroy the good image established over the years, which is not conducive to future socialization.
- Getting drunk is a waste of time that cannot be ignored
Getting drunk is very delaying things, I believe everyone has experienced this. Getting drunk is a waste of time that cannot be ignored. The process of drinking takes one night. If you are drunk, you will definitely not be able to drive the next day, which may delay a lot of things. The mental state on the second day after getting drunk is also very poor. Some people can't wake up all day, and it also affects their work and damages their image in the workplace. If there is a conflict or some minor accident due to drinking, it will take a lot of time for you to deal with these matters.