Social Rule: The more you talk, the less valuable your words are
Whether at dinner or in casual chats, many people like to talk incessantly. Some people are very talkative and don't want to stop for a while. No matter what other people say about the topic, he can lead into his own topic and enjoy himself. There are also people who usually don't talk much, but as long as they come across a topic that suits them, they are more excited to talk about it. The topic we are going to talk about today is: the more words you say, the less valuable your words are. Let's analyze it below.
- Too many words will naturally dilute the value of words
If you were asked to choose the five most wonderful sentences you say every day, you may find that you can say a lot of "golden sentences" too. But if you say a lot of words in a day, you will find that these "golden sentences" are buried in nonsense, and the value will be greatly reduced. Those who talk a lot, even if there is some truth to what they say, others can't hear them. In a company, executives don’t speak too much in front of employees, because they say less and appear more authoritative. If they keep talking, their words will lose their weight. If you talk too much, no one will hear what you have to say.
- Talking too much will take up other people's time and opportunities
Do you like someone who talks a lot? Most still don't like it very much. Maybe when two people first met, the person who talks a lot is more enthusiastic, and it is easier for people to understand, but over time, everyone will gradually become disgusted. We went to a dinner together. The dinner lasted for two hours, and he talked for one hour alone. This not only greatly wastes other people's time, but also takes up other people's social opportunities. At this time, no matter how wonderful his words are, others will not like to hear them. Even if you are indeed the protagonist of the dinner party, you should control your speaking time.
- Saying too much will quickly be seen by others
There is another disadvantage of talking too much, that is, exposing yourself early. Some people find that you talk a lot, but they are willing to listen to you and keep leading you to say more. At this time, you need to understand that it is not how wonderful what you said, it is he who is setting you up. Sometimes when two people meet for the first time, after the conversation, you still know nothing about the other party, but the other party has figured out all your bases. Sometimes, your words will reveal your true level. Maybe you have some shortcomings in some area, you have been trying to cover up. But when he talks too much, he can't hide it.
Among friends, of course, you can talk freely and have fun, but in most cases you can't let yourself go. Talking too much makes it worthless. Properly control the amount of your speech, and you will gradually become more mature. Dear friends, do you think that you usually talk a lot? Let's talk about it together.