Social Rule: The lower your status, the less patient others will be with you
Socializing is a required course for everyone. Some people earnestly learn various social skills, and their character is not bad, but they still cannot establish a good social network. Some people find that others have different attitudes towards themselves and others. For the same thing, others may be friendly and patient with others, but very impatient with themselves. The topic we are going to talk about today is: the lower your status, the less patient others will be with you. Let's analyze it below.
- Some details in life make you feel that others treat you differently
Xiao Wang is a newcomer to a company. The department manager publishes a notification in the WeChat group, and if others ask questions about the details of the notification in the group, the department manager will answer. But Xiao Wang raised a question, but no one answered. Xiao Wang called the department manager, and the other party hung up after saying a few words. Xiao Wang asked some senior colleagues for advice, and the other party just said a word or two, and left whether you understood it or not. These details make Xiao Wang feel that others have different attitudes towards him.
- The lower your status, the more impatient others will be with you
Whether you admit it or not, the patience of others towards you is directly related to your status. Some people talk to those with higher status. No matter how long the other party's words are, he has the patience to listen to them and make all kinds of cooperation. But when talking to someone of lower status, it is not allowed to speak more than a few sentences in a row. The same goes for those who are tantrums, always good-tempered towards those of higher status, but bad-tempered towards those of lower status. The lower your status, the more impatient others will be with you.
- Not only patience, your social status basically determines the various attitudes others have towards you
If your social status is low, it not only affects others' patience with you, but also basically determines the various attitudes others have towards you. You can think about it carefully, if he would say so rudely to you, would he do the same to others? You don't have time to invite him to dinner, but he's on call for invitations from people of higher status. Don't blame others for being so realistic, blame yourself for not doing well enough. Work hard to improve your abilities and your social status, this is what you should do.
The lower your social status, the less patient others will be with you. I believe many people can feel this. Dear friends, what do you think of this article, please leave a message to exchange it.