Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
In the previous article, I mentioned four taboos when ordering food: regional taboos, religious taboos, occupational taboos and health taboos. In addition to these, you should also pay attention to some of the rules of our meal. If You're breaking these rules, and it's very easy to be objectionable.
The first rule: please don't add vegetables
Some of us are really too enthusiastic. When we think that a dish is delicious, we just want others to try it, and then we use our chopsticks to teach others. The most important thing is that some people use their mouths before serving them to others. Take a sip, this picture is indescribable, make up your own mind!
Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
This is equivalent to someone drinking your saliva. If you think there is a good dish, make a "please" gesture and say at the same time, "Hey, what's special about this dish, this dish is from our restaurant. Special dishes, you can taste it." That's it. If you want to serve food to others, you must use public chopsticks, which is fine.
The second rule: toast not persuade
Toasting people is with blessings and respect. Others can't drink, others don't want to drink, don't persuade them to death, this is actually a taboo in the wine field, but there are always such people, take him as a point There are no tricks. I hope that people who usually have the habit of persuading alcohol can pay attention to some measure, and don't bring some local customs and habits to other places. I think they are quite kind and enthusiastic.
Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
The third rule: watch people serve dishes
Don't order what you think is good for others, but to see what the other party likes, and if the other party has any taboos, you should avoid it. The guests you invite may have different occupations, different health levels, different ages, and different genders. Men and women care about different things.
Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
Rule 4: Elements Match
As the host of the guests, we must pay attention to the combination of meat and vegetables when ordering. The ratio of meat and vegetables is generally 7:3. And we have to guarantee one dish per person, so ten people can't be seated, so let's order five or six dishes in total. That would seem stingy, so it's better not to invite. If there are more women, you can order more vegetarian dishes, because women may ask for more vegetarian dishes.
Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
The fifth rule: turn the table to understand the proportions
When you want to turn the table to eat other dishes, first check to see if anyone else is there to order food, especially if the leader of the other party is serving food there. You turn the table when the leader picks up the food, and you don’t drink the leader’s toast. If the leader is not drunk, you should eat more. These are all taboos in the wine field. So how do you know the size? First, to see if others have the situation of picking vegetables. Second, if a new dish is served, let the guest of honor take the first bite, and the table should generally be turned clockwise.
Six rules on the dinner party, if you don't understand it, you will be a big taboo!
The sixth rule: the priority of the seat
Especially when you just entered the room, where is the owner's seat? Where is the guest of honor seat? Where are the seats for two guests? You must be clear about where everyone sits, otherwise, if you sit in the wrong place, some knowledgeable and caring guests may feel that you are very rude, and you must be clear about how to arrange the seats of the guests. If you want to get the most complete seating etiquette map, you can follow me, and then privately message "seats".