If you are not allowed to pay for the dinner party, you better not buy it
Xiaohui bumped into an old classmate Xiaodong on the road, so they went to dinner together, and called a few classmates separately. Xiaodong told Xiaohui privately that he would pay today and told Xiaohui not to buy it. But Xiaohui felt that today's dinner was arranged by him and Xiaodong, and he should buy it himself. So I went to pay when the dinner was about to end, which made Xiaodong see it, and Xiaodong rushed to buy it, but he didn't get it. Xiaohui didn't expect Xiaodong to be very angry. He had finally got together for a party, but he was unhappy because he paid the bill. The topic we are going to talk about today is: If you are not allowed to pay for the dinner party, you better not buy it. Let's analyze it below.
- Others don’t let you pay the bill, they may have their own arrangements
Many times, other people have their own arrangements when they want to treat guests. If you insist on rushing to pay the bill, you may disrupt other people's arrangements. For example, someone wants to thank someone who has helped them by asking for a meal, and everything goes well, but you end up rushing to pay. Others want to express their feelings but fail to do so, wasting so much time in vain, of course they are very unhappy. In many meals now, the main investment is time and opportunity, not the cost of meals. Others set up a dinner party, but you get favors, so of course others are not happy.
- You are rushing to pay the bill, which may make the other party feel shameless
Some people organize a dinner party to invite everyone to have a fun and fun, and also take the opportunity to show their strength and demeanor. In such a dinner party, the organizer must make himself the protagonist, and he controls the rhythm of the entire dinner party. Originally everything was under control, but when it came time to pay the bill, you were very rushing to buy it with him. The demeanor that he has always maintained is greatly reduced by robbing so many people. This can feel very humiliating. Others want to invite everyone to dinner today, why can't you quietly fulfill his wish?
- It's not necessarily good to pay the bill, don't buy it when you shouldn't
Some people have a misunderstanding in their understanding, thinking that there is nothing wrong with rushing to pay. What he thought was, I spent money for everyone, can everyone still blame me? Such people tend to take money more seriously, thinking that when they pay the bill, they pay for it themselves. But for many meals, it may not be appropriate for you to pay. If you're just one of the people invited, in one of those very unimportant roles, don't grab the limelight. If you want to buy it, you can set up a meal by yourself, and if someone asks you, you don't plan to let you buy it.