When you are middle-aged, if you drink alcohol and have these 5 manifestations, it means you are old

Life really is a gorgeous robe full of lice. People often jump out and say that there is no midlife crisis, but you are lazy and dead! That's because you don't know how much snow has fallen in other people's lives. Some people do their best to avoid sinking in the waves of life, cover up their embarrassment and embarrassment in the storms of the world, and maintain their dignity in front of strangers. Middle-aged people see the world no longer in black or white, not because they have lost their youthful spirit, but because of how difficult it is for them to experience the good life.

People's mindsets and moods change as they age, which can appear inadvertently when drinking. Let's take a look at these "old" performances. How many do you have?

In fact, in middle age, both the body and energy begin to decline, and it is no longer suitable for excessive consumption of health. On the other hand, for middle-aged people, time is becoming more and more precious, and every day is counting down, so more time should be spent on perfecting themselves and spending time with their families. So you have to learn to say no when you don't know what kind of booze you're going to be in. Otherwise, after a meal, not only did you not get to know effective contacts, but you also got into trouble.

1. More and more drinking at home

People of different ages have different perspectives on life. When young, full of energy and fighting spirit, doing everything in your power to dream of a better life. However, with the growth of age, they begin to become more mature and stable, and with certain social experience, they can make themselves less detours in life. In fact, the same goes for feelings. When you are young, you can pursue unparalleled romantic love. You always think that love is to love vigorously; but when their relationship stabilizes, they begin to pursue a happy and stable ordinary life.

Especially after entering middle age, I feel the ruthlessness of time and the traces left by the years, and feel that life is more and more precious. Maybe at one point those things that can't be given up for themselves become indifferent as they get older. In fact, life is such a process of constant pursuit and abandonment. In middle age, some things that should be thrown away are thrown away quickly. It means nothing to itself, but it's just an unnecessary burden. Why hold on to it? Aren't you tired of carrying such a heavy burden?

The older you are, the more responsibilities you take on. You can't take care of your home when you're out drinking and your family is worried about yourself. Therefore, you prefer to drink at home. On the one hand, you can enjoy a slow drink among friends, and on the other hand, you can take care of your family.

2. I don't like to make a fuss and drink more and more

The older you get, the less you like to be noisy. When you were young, drinking was easy, but now you prefer to drink in a quiet environment. It is easier for a business wine party to talk about things in a quiet environment, while a friend wine party is more convenient to talk and communicate in a quiet environment.

3. I don’t like to mix and drink more and more

In the past, when I drank, I always felt that I wanted more, and I drank white, red and yellow indiscriminately. Now you prefer to taste the mellow aroma of wine. If you drink baijiu with your meal, you will never drink any other kind of wine. Single-mindedness is not only for health, but also stability.

4. Never drink too much except your best friend

In the past, any wine party would participate, but now you know that you don't have to go to any wine party, and you must go to any wine party; you don't have to drink too much with anyone, and you must "get drunk and rest" with whomever you drink. You should never drink too much in front of others except your best friend, because time is the strongest proof that they are your trusted companions.

Five, to be more restrained, do not fight alcohol

In the past, you always thought you could still drink. Now, even if you know you're a good drinker, you'll be more restrained when you drink. It's maturity, it's wisdom, and you know it's not shameful to be restrained when drinking, it's shameful to be drunk in front of others. The word "old" is not only not derogatory, but full of respect. "Old" means seniors, "Old" means more life experience, "Old" means more wise way of life. As the saying goes: Ginger is still old and spicy, and wine is still old and fragrant. Only by appreciating the beauty of the old can we taste the beauty of wine.