When my colleague got married, I gave a gift of 1,000. He didn’t even come when I got married. I was stunned when I received WeChat 2 weeks later.

When my colleague got married, I gave a gift of 1,000. He didn’t even come when I got married. I was stunned when I received WeChat 2 weeks later.

Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li came in from the same batch of the company. They have been working in the company for more than a year now. Since the two came in together at the time, they helped each other a lot during the probation period when they were still inexperienced, so colleagues Friendship is deeper.

When he came to the company for six months, because another department of the company lacked people, the leader learned that Xiao Li had the ability in that area, so after negotiating with Xiao Li, they gave Xiao Li a salary increase and transferred Xiao Li to that department. Xiao Zhang has always been in the current department, because Xiao Zhang is very serious and diligent in his work, and has also achieved very good results in his current job, and also received a salary increase.

Although Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li are still in the same company, because there is no handover between their departments and their work is very busy, the contact between Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li is not so frequent, but the two people The friendship between them is still relatively good, and sometimes when they have a free lunch break, they will have dinner together.

When he was working for almost a year, Xiao Li sent an invitation card to everyone in the company, and the invitation card for Xiao Zhang was especially delicate. It turns out that Xiao Li is getting married. When everyone in the company paid a gift, some paid 200, some paid 500. Because Xiao Zhang has a good relationship with Xiao Li, he directly paid a gift of 1,000, and went to the scene on the day of Xiao Li's wedding. Sending my sincere wishes.

After the wedding banquet, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li chatted for a while, and the two jokingly agreed that when Xiao Zhang got married, Xiao Li would definitely come, and he would definitely give a big gift at that time. After the chat, Xiao Zhang went home to rest and went to work the next day.

And a few months later, Xiao Zhang is also getting married. The invitation that Xiao Zhang gave to Xiao Li this time was also very delicate. When sending the invitation, Xiao Zhang smiled and said to Xiao Li, "I'm waiting for your gift." Xiao Li responded with a smile. But when it came to the wedding, Xiao Zhang did not wait for Xiao Li to show up, nor did he see Xiao Li's "big gift", or even received a message from Xiao Li.

Xiao Zhang waited for a long time at night, but he still didn't get the news of Xiao Li. He felt very disappointed, and fell asleep with an uncomfortable mood. After that, Xiao Zhang's work started to get busy, so he didn't have any lunch appointments with Xiao Li, and there was no message between the two. Xiao Zhang was also a little bit concerned that Xiao Li didn't attend his wedding. I was worried and uncomfortable, so I didn't take the initiative to contact Xiao Li.

Originally, Xiao Zhang thought that Xiao Li would not have contact with him again, but what Xiao Zhang did not expect was that after 2 weeks, he received another WeChat message from Xiao Li. After one o'clock, Xiao Zhang was stunned. Because Xiao Li sent a message on WeChat: "Xiao Zhang, for your birthday in half a month, I have prepared a gift, and I will definitely come when that time comes!"

When Xiao Zhang saw the news, he quickly replied to him, saying that his wedding was over half a month ago. Xiao Li quickly sent a reply. It turned out that Xiao Li was very busy with work some time ago, so he was fiddling with it. He remembered the wrong time and remembered it as the next month, so he missed Xiao Zhang's wedding. Xiao Li, who found out that he had made the wrong time, repeatedly apologized on WeChat, hoping to make up for Xiao Zhang.

And Xiao Zhang knew that Xiao Li didn't deliberately not participate, but after he remembered it wrongly, although there was a little complaint in his heart, he still did not lose this good friend, so he was relieved. He didn't accuse Xiao Li too much, just said that Xiao Li If you want to make up the promised gift for yourself, and if you invite him to dinner another day, it will be regarded as a wedding banquet. Xiao Li also said yes.

1. Important matters are best communicated in advance

In this story, Xiao Li misremembered the time, and it was a pity that he was not able to attend Xiao Zhang's wedding, but this matter can actually be solved through early communication. Just communicate with Xiao Zhang, and you will not remember the wrong date.

In fact, many important matters, if we do not communicate with others in advance, it is easy to make mistakes, so we must know how to arrange these important matters in advance, it is best to have a rough prototype, so that it will not be easy to come out question.

2. Don’t be too concerned about past problems

When Xiao Zhang finally knew that Xiao Li didn't want to contact him and be friends, he didn't care much about Xiao Li's mistakes. In fact, this was a good practice, but he didn't care too much about the problems that had passed, because things had already happened. It happened, and it is useless to accuse Xiao Li blindly, it will only cause unpleasantness on both sides.

If you act calm and relieved at this time, don't get too caught up in bad emotions, but it can make Xiao Li closer to himself and deeper friendship.