The female colleague borrowed 3,000 from me and resigned. She didn't answer the phone. After half a year, she received the news and was stunned.
The female colleague borrowed 3,000 from me and resigned. She didn't answer the phone. After half a year, she received the news and was stunned.
After we have been working for a period of time, we will know that in the workplace, we should not only improve our work ability and complete our own work, but also know how to exercise our emotional intelligence, so that we can deal with the relationship between leaders and colleagues. and maintain good relationships with them.
Because only by maintaining good interpersonal relationships with them and ensuring a harmonious working environment in the office, can we develop for a long time in this company. If there are always conflicts and conflicts with colleagues, which affects the atmosphere of the office, it is very likely that If the company does not stay for a long time, either he can't stand it and choose to resign, or he is targeted by the leaders and forced to resign.
If you want to get along with your colleagues in harmony, the most important thing you need to be cautious about is your economic exchanges. Because the issue of economic interests can most arouse a person's nerves, people are often more sensitive to matters related to economic interests than other things. trouble.
1. The origin of borrowing money
Li Jun has been working in the current company for about four years. He is considered to be an older person in this company with relatively strong ability. Every time his performance ranking will be in the front position, he is also more enthusiastic. He is willing to help others, so many colleagues will go to Li Jun for help when they are in trouble.
However, because of Li Jun's willingness to help others, he not only gained a lot of good popularity and established good interpersonal relationships with colleagues, but also caused him some losses, and he did not suffer less from his wife's scolding. Because Li Jun is not only helping others with work problems, but if others have difficulties in their lives, he will also help them appropriately.
For example, a colleague would come to Li Jun to borrow money due to difficulties in life, and Li Jun would often be eager to help after hearing the reason. However, there is no stipulation on when to repay the money, and eventually some of it will be gone. Before, Li Jun lent a male colleague 2,000 yuan, but he didn't decide when to pay it back. After that, Li Jun forgot about it.
After Li Jun remembered this matter under the question of his wife, the male colleague had already left, and he did not have his contact information. In the end, he could not get the money back. After Li Jun's wife found out, she scolded Li Jun badly.
This time, while Li Jun was eating, a female colleague came over to chat with Li Jun. Chatting and chatting, the female colleague asked Li Jun, saying that she wanted to borrow 3,000 yuan from Li Jun, and she would pay it back as soon as she had the money. It turned out that the mother of the female colleague's family was seriously ill, and now the money is urgently needed. After Li Jun heard about it, he was a little entangled in his heart. After all, his wife warned him not to borrow money lightly.
2. Subsequent resignation
But under the begging of the female colleague, Li Jun couldn't bear to stand by and finally lent her 3,000 yuan. But Li Jun also grew a memory and asked his female colleague to write an IOU. But what Li Jun didn't expect was that the female colleague left immediately after a week's visit. Li Jun asked someone who knew her well, only to find out that it was because her mother was seriously ill, and she went back to take care of her.
Although Li Jun didn't care much after hearing about the reason, Li Jun's wife was more concerned. She was afraid that this female colleague would just like the previous male colleague and leave. Fortunately, Li Jun still had the phone number of this female colleague, so after a while, Li Jun called him at the behest of his wife. But what I didn't expect was that the female colleague didn't answer at all.
3. Receive the message
Soon half a year passed, and Li Jun gradually forgot about this matter, and Li Jun's wife stopped talking about it, but only restricted Li Jun and must be cautious when borrowing money. But just one day, when Li Jun was at work, he received a text message. After seeing it, Li Jun was stunned. It turns out that this is the female colleague who lost contact after leaving the company.
She said sorry to Li Jun, saying that because she was very busy with her mother at the time, she had no money to pay, so she was embarrassed to answer the phone. Now that her mother is in good health, and she has money through work, she will pay back the money as soon as possible. She transferred 3500 to Li Jun, and also expressed her gratitude and apology to Li Jun. Li Jun was very happy and moved when he saw it, so he sent a text message back with "It's fine. As long as your family is safe and happy".