The classmate reunion is AA system. After the class leader issues the bill, the female classmates are stunned: I will not pay the money

The classmate reunion is AA system. After the class leader issues the bill, the female classmates are stunned: I will not pay the money

One day, when Xiaofang was taking a lunch break, she saw that WeChat kept sending reminders to herself, so she clicked in to have a look. It turned out that it was because the Chinese New Year was coming, so everyone became active in the group. A classmate suggested that everyone get together after going home and how about organizing a class reunion. Many classmates said yes, and now they are discussing to set the time and place. Where.

When Xiaofang saw the news of her classmates, she remembered that she had been graduating for more than ten years, but she had never participated in a relatively large classmate reunion, only with three or five former classmates and friends. On the one hand, I felt that it was too troublesome to go, and on the other hand, my time always did not match the time of the class reunion, and I didn’t want to ask for leave, so I couldn’t participate.

Xiaofang originally thought it was the same situation this time, so she didn't care too much. But when she finished work and went home to read the information in the evening, she saw that the time of this classmate reunion did not conflict with her rest time, and she was able to rush to participate. C and this classmate reunion seemed to be very interesting It was lively, and many people participated, so Xiaofang decided to participate once after hesitating for a while, to feel the changes of the classmates.

So Xiaofang also sent a message in the group, saying that she would also participate. After making a rough count, the squad leader made a list of the party, and then sent a group announcement, specifically indicating the time and time of the party. The location is also mentioned below. For the sake of fairness, this party is still using the AA system. When everyone posted a message in the group, they all agreed.

On the day of the reunion, Xiaofang took care of herself and went to the class reunion full of expectations. When Xiaofang arrived, almost all the students on the list were there, and everyone was chatting with each other. There were many people at this class reunion, most of them were male classmates, and few female classmates came. After Xiaofang arrived, she said hello to everyone, sat down among the girls, and chatted with the girls.

This class reunion was very lively. Everyone hadn't seen each other for a long time. In addition to the pressure of daily life and work, now I can finally take a break and chat and communicate with old classmates. Everyone is releasing their pressure, male classmate They also asked the waiter for a few cigarettes and a few cases of wine, vented their stress at the party, and kept smiling to each other. The girls are not so noisy, but they are also chatting enthusiastically and enthusiastically.

This class reunion lasted for more than 3 hours. Everyone was very happy, but also a little tired, and began to want to go back and rest early. The monitor saw that everyone was not very interested, so he said to let everyone go back first, he paid the money, and then sent the bill to the group to share with everyone. Everyone agreed and quickly left.

After everyone went home for a night's rest, the next day I received a message from the monitor from the classmates. But when Xiaofang and some female classmates opened the bill, they were all stunned. It turns out that the cost of this class reunion is not small, but nearly half of it is money for tobacco and alcohol. The female classmates did not touch these things, but they had to share it with the male classmates. Immediately, a female classmate sent a message saying, "I don't have the money."

Some male classmates also said that the female classmate was stingy, but when all the female classmates who attended the party said the same, no male classmates spoke. The squad leader hurriedly came out to smooth things out, willing to take the lion's share and hope everyone would understand each other. In the end, under the mediation of the monitor, everyone agreed that the girls should only participate in paying for the meal.

1. Things should be discussed and communicated well in advance

What we can know from the above story is that for these more important things, we must know how to discuss and communicate well in advance. For example, when the classmates pay the bill this time, everyone can discuss in advance. The dishes you ordered at the beginning are AA. If you add something, just let the person who wants to add it share it. If you communicate well in this way, there will be no discord and conflicts in the future.

2. Know how to understand each other

The second is to learn to understand each other. Sometimes, people can't think very well, and there are often some small problems. At this time, we must know how to understand each other. If the boys and girls in this story always insist on themselves and refuse to be considerate and give in, Then there is no way to reach a reconciliation, which will also lead to conflicts.