Speaking Skills in Wine Bureau

The wine party is not a place for you to talk freely, nor is it a place for you to vent your emotions. You have to learn to adjust any mood or dissatisfaction on the wine board. Speaking is a science, which requires skill. You have to know the truth, the lies, the rhetoric and the irony. Let's take a look at the speaking skills on the wine board, what to say and what not to say on the wine board! Success in the workplace is not about talking more, but about speaking properly. As the saying goes, “Disease comes in through the mouth, and misfortune comes out through the mouth”.

Although everyone understands this simple truth, in real life, some people can't help but gossip about other people's private affairs, spread some unwarranted gossip from time to time, or can't help but yell at the people around them and lose their temper, Or comment on critics, blame colleagues. What he didn't know, in the wine bureau, people who did this would not get the trust and reuse of the leaders. "Birds of a feather flock together". Professional psychologists in the United States have found that introverts are more than 53% at the highest levels of organizations, at the CEO level; you might be surprised by this finding, but you'll be relieved when you think about it.

Often, good managers can show their charisma in meetings: they don't talk much, but they show calm and focus through their eyes, and they listen to everyone quietly and carefully; they open their arms and sit naturally They are always present, showing an attitude of welcome and acceptance; their speeches always end in a low but firm tone, complemented by confident glances and clear gestures. Speaking at a competitive drinking board not only shows your presence, it also plays a role in showing who you are and enhancing your personal worth. Therefore, you need to establish such a psychological position: either don't say it, or say it loudly! What can we do to avoid the negative impact of "say it better not to say it"? What to say and what not to say at the bar.

First: the truth

Telling the truth is the hardest, because telling the truth is a high-risk behavior. If a man says he only tells the truth, he must be a liar. If a man never tells the truth, he must be a fairy. As a man you have to learn to tell the truth. If a man never tells the truth, but only lies, he cannot be a liar. A good liar must tell nine facts and then deceive you with a lie. The truth depends on the object of time and place, and telling the truth in any context can be an aggression against the leader or indifference to the subordinate.

When the leader gives you instructions alone and the cultivated heart cannot be expressed in words, do you look for opportunities to express your loyalty by speaking the truth? When everyone defends their sanity, will they speak the truth to their leaders to succeed? Lying is a skill, telling the truth is an art. If you speak the truth, you too will be promoted, and if you speak the truth wrong, you will be irreversible.

The second: clichés

What kind of song to sing in what mountain, different piers have different songs. Summarize the work, make decisions for the leader, and discuss democratic comments with colleagues. In this case, you should be able to write clichés without direction and everyone will be happy about it. Ye Qiu said the bigger the official, the better. The main work is to hold a meeting, and the meeting is mainly a summary. There are three main points in the summary: first, this is a successful meeting and a solidarity meeting; second, everyone has put forward many good opinions, the key is to implement; third, the meeting is over. Comrade * * * please stay and have another meeting.

The third: empty words

I didn't say it. This is empty talk. It is often empty talk for a boss to talk about his vision to an employee, and it is often empty talk for an employee to promise their boss their goals. Empty words are words you say but don't do, but they reflect your attitude and determination. The more determined you are, the more positive your attitude will be and the louder your empty words will be.

Fourth: the opposite

No one wants to be ironic, but you have to say something ironic, for example, to advise leaders on democracy. We would say that the main disadvantage of leaders is that they don't work hard, which is ironic. This is not a disadvantage in China, but an advantage. There is also a real irony. Leaders don’t want to die when they work (the irony is that you want to work overtime, but you want us to work overtime together? If you want to work overtime, you have to pay overtime for overtime). Irony depends on whether others will listen, rather than laughing at it after hearing it. Those who can hear it will hear the taste of irony.

Fifth: nonsense

Speaking at meetings is necessary, whether it's expressing your personal performance or talking about the progress of a project, you can't tell the truth, lie, sarcastic, or talk too much, if you don't seem to be doing something specific, you have to talk nonsense .

Sixth: lies

You cannot walk in society without lying. Don't talk about adults. Today, even children lie. I think lying is innate. There are three types of lies, benign (when you visit a cancer patient, you will never say you will die), malicious (there are many types of lies), and spontaneous (when someone asks you how you are doing, you reply that you are busy, all are all like this). There are many kinds of adult lies, such as: women's age, men's income, boss promised bonuses and employees promised goals.

Seventh: Drunk Talk

There are some things that I really can't say, and I feel embarrassed if I don't say it. Then drink it. Have a drink and don't worry if you're drinking too much. There are truths, nonsense, nonsense, and sad words in wine. Infatuated people drink and talk love, depressed people drink and talk angry, sharp people drink and talk weird, smart people drink and talk dirty, confused people drink and tell the truth, sober people drink and talk about things that make you think.

Eighth: don't speak

A thousand words, we must learn not to speak. If you don't speak, no one will think you are dumb. If you are wrong to open your mouth, it is better not to speak, please think about this sentence before opening your mouth.