My colleague asked me to borrow money and promised to pay it back within 5 days. After 5 months, I sent 9 words and she immediately transferred the money.

My colleague asked me to borrow money and promised to pay it back within 5 days. After 5 months, I sent 9 words and she immediately transferred the money.

Xiaobin has been working in the current company for more than a year. Because Xiaobin has similar work experience before, it will be easier to start working in the current company. I like the content very much, so I am very motivated to work, and I am willing to spend my personal time to study working methods and constantly adjust my work ideas.

And Xiaobin's hard work has also brought huge rewards. In each cycle of the company's assessment, he has ranked among the best in every time from the downstream level at the beginning to the present, and his growth has also attracted the attention of the leaders and Appreciation, I often talk to Xiaobin, expressing optimism about Xiaobin, I hope Xiaobin can continue to work hard, at the same time, the leaders also gradually began to tilt the relatively high-quality and core resources to Xiaobin, and constantly exercise Xiaobin's ability .

Xiaobin's progress in work is relatively gratifying, but there is a major trouble in life. That is, a colleague asked him to borrow money before, but he did not pay it back for a long time. That day Xiaobin was having lunch during his lunch break, and the colleague sat next to Xiaobin. Xiaobin was not familiar with this colleague before, but only saw the same office as himself and knew that it was in the same department as himself.

After the colleague sat next to Xiaobin, he talked to Xiaobin, and Xiaobin chatted with her slowly for a while, mainly because the female colleague said that Xiaobin just wanted to bury his head in eating and go back to have a rest to get ready for work. But the colleague started talking to Xiaobin and asked Xiaobin if he could borrow 3,000 yuan, promising that he would return it to Xiaobin within 5 days. Xiaobin was stunned when he heard this request.

Seeing that Xiaobin didn't respond, the colleague said that when he borrowed money, because the old man in the family was sick, and now he needed the money urgently, so he wanted to borrow some money for emergency. He didn't know anyone else, and he happened to see Xiaobin sitting Here, I just want to borrow a little from Xiaobin. Xiaobin felt that they were also colleagues in the company, not to mention that she would pay it back within 5 days, so it should be fine to lend her a loan, so Xiaobin agreed.

But what Xiaobin did not expect was that this female colleague not only did not return within 5 days, but it has been almost 5 months now. At first, Xiaobin felt that it would take 5 days to pay it back. It was indeed a little tight, so she could wait a little longer. As a result, after waiting for several months, the company paid her wages several times, and she did not see her mentioning the matter of paying back the money. Xiaobin has always been hampered by the feelings of his colleagues, so it is not easy to urge her, but only occasionally slaps her sideways.

But this female colleague didn't answer at all. Every time Xiaobin brought up this topic, the colleague would talk about some other topics and deliberately ignored Xiaobin's words. On this day, Xiaobin euphemistically hinted to a female colleague again, but the female colleague still refused to accept the offer. Xiaobin felt uncomfortable at the time. After returning home from get off work in the evening, he thought about it again, and the more he thought about it, the more angry he felt, and he felt that he had been deceived.

So Xiaobin opened WeChat on his mobile phone and sent a 9-character message to this colleague: "I will lose my money on the ground." But what Xiaobin didn't expect was that a few minutes after his message was sent, he immediately received the transfer information, followed by the colleague's apology, saying I'm sorry, the economy is really tight during this time, so I have plenty of money. After a while, I can return the money to Xiaobin.

Xiaobin didn't know why he could ask her to pay back the money by sending a message by himself, but the money came back after all, and he was a little relieved. It wasn't until Xiaobin talked to an old employee once that he understood why. It turned out that this was because Xiaobin's work performance was very good. She was afraid that Xiaobin would become a department head in the future, and tearing up her face would have an impact on her, so when Xiaobin's attitude became bad, she immediately repaid the money. After listening to this, Xiao Bin couldn't help but sigh.

1. Look at your character when borrowing money

From this story, we can know that we must be cautious in economic transactions, especially when borrowing money, we must first see the character of the other party. We are not very trustworthy in work and life, so we must carefully consider whether to lend or not. Only for those who have not broken their trust in life and work can we lend money to them with relative confidence.

Second, don't be embarrassed to ask for it

Secondly, what we can know is that after borrowing money, don’t be embarrassed to ask for it, because it belongs to you in the first place. If he fails to pay it back after the specified time, he will be dishonest and encroach on your legitimate rights and interests. Not to mention, many times this money will not come back to us, and only by asking for it generously can we protect our legitimate rights and interests from being infringed.