Middle-aged people with high emotional intelligence will not participate in worthless wine parties, so as not to waste time and energy
When working in the workplace, I believe that many young people want to meet strangers who are valuable to them, so it is necessary to treat strangers as friends. Everyone is like-minded and can chat and deepen cooperation through eating and drinking. However, when eating, young people should also pay attention to which wine parties should participate and which wine parties should not participate. If you always go to some worthless wine rounds in the society, it will actually affect your career, and those middle-aged people with high emotional intelligence will not follow these three worthless wine rounds, so everyone must be extra alert.
In the real workplace, some people deserve deep friendships and some people don't, especially colleagues who are used to looking down on people. In addition to looking down on people, their network resources are not good; when you meet such contemptuous colleagues in the company's wine bureau, you don't have to associate with them. These people are also the worst group of people in the company; hypocritical on the surface, people may ask for help, but that's the bottom line on the surface. When things do happen, these people are also the furthest away; if you come across coworkers who look down on you at the wine party, don't try to befriend them. After all, this kind of person is really not worth making friends.
1. The wine bureau of malicious persuasion
After entering the company, it is inevitable that many young or middle-aged people will be invited to some wine and dinner parties, but they may also actively miss some wine parties that are not of much value to you. For example, everyone always maliciously persuades you to drink at the dinner table, so you can't listen to the experiences and successful experiences shared by industry elites and bosses at the drinking table, which will definitely be detrimental to your future help. Everyone wants the opportunity to work and collaborate with the elites in the wine board, but when you drink a lot, you find yourself an outsider at the wine table instead, and everyone doesn't want to have a better deal with you Cooperation, so everyone should learn to choose to say no outright without feeling embarrassed or embarrassed.
2. The wine bureau organized by the villain
Many villains work in the workplace, and they always take advantage of honest people. However, if honest people have some ideas, they will eventually be put out by villains. Therefore, it is impossible for an honest person to let his thinking collide with others in the wine bureau, and you can't come up with more skills to solve the problem. If you spend a lot of time with these villains in a wine game, you will find that the villains will convince you to drink, make you very embarrassed, and then get into trouble. You can't do something at the wine table.
Before this, when I was at a wine party, I met a similar villain. This colleague is actually a relative of the company in the company, and the leaders value him very much. However, he took the opportunity to frame the new employee who had just met and joined the company, which made the new employee very embarrassed at the wine table. The existence of villains in the company actually makes the company team very uneasy, so the relevant leaders will not tolerate these villains continue to do something.
3. The wine bureau that wants you as a foil
The so-called escort bureau is just a foil for you. So, how do you judge whether the other party really invited you to go, or just on a whim? In fact, just look at the time of his invitation. If he invites you a few days in advance, he may be sincerely inviting you. If he only calls you an hour or a half before dinner, it's probably because there aren't enough people and you need a foil. You should not go to this type of wine party, because you are not the protagonist. If you go, others will think that you are too easy to call, and those who are easy to call will not appreciate it.
4. Many strangers are present, and no one chats with you
Participating in such a wine party will only make you feel embarrassed at the wine table, because friends or classmates around you may talk to you a lot, but if the wine table is full of strangers, it is impossible to give you in the industry Provide any help. Even if you listen to other people's successes in this industry, you will find that everyone ignores you. He'll actually help you a lot when you're having a dinner party with like-minded friends. Everyone just needs to get along with positive colleagues and friends. I'm sure you'll have more good friends at the wine party, and everyone won't refuse to chat with you.