Department team building, my colleague asked me to pay 350 yuan in advance and not pay it back. I sent 9 words, and he immediately transferred the money.
Department team building, my colleague asked me to pay 350 yuan in advance and not pay it back. I sent 9 words, and he immediately transferred the money.
The longer we work in the workplace, the more wine and dinner parties we will participate in. There are relatives, classmates and friends, but the ones who participate the most are probably with colleagues or leaders. And this kind of team building dinner between colleagues or leaders is either a company funding organization or a colleague AA. The main purpose is to strengthen communication and form a harmonious working atmosphere.
But in this kind of group dinner, we also have some points to pay attention to, because after all, this is not a meal with our own friends, and we should not be too casual, otherwise it is very likely to suffer losses, which will easily lead to contradictions and conflicts, and ultimately fail to reach For the purpose of strengthening communication and increasing feelings, it will make the relationship between colleagues worse and go against your own wishes.
Xiao Chen once experienced such an unpleasant experience in departmental team building. This time, the team building of the department was organized by the supervisor in the department. Taking advantage of the fact that everyone's work tasks are not heavy this Friday, I want everyone to finish it as soon as possible, go to dinner early in the evening, and have a good rest for two days after returning. Everyone agreed with this idea, so they stepped up their work in the morning, and at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, the work tasks were almost completed.
At this time, the supervisor took everyone from the company to a promising hotel for team building. After the supervisor took everyone to order, they started chatting with each other, and some people played small games together, and each began to relax. And Xiao Chen also chatted with a colleague next to him. Xiao Chen was not familiar with the colleague next to him. He saw each other every day, but they didn't talk to each other.
Because the usual work tasks are relatively heavy, everyone concentrates on their work, and they have no mind to chat with each other. Now in the team building, everyone is embarrassed to play with their mobile phones, so they start chatting with each other. It turned out that the colleague next to him was called Lao Wang, and he came to this company only a month earlier than Xiao Chen. Xiao Chen chatted with Lao Wang intermittently for a while, and then started to play team games.
The meal was eaten very slowly, and it took more than three hours for everyone to finish the meal and start the AA checkout. At this time, Lao Wang said to Xiao Chen with a face of embarrassment and embarrassment: "My mobile phone is out of power, can you help me pay for it? I don't have any cash on me." Then he shook his mobile phone. , the screen is indeed black. Xiao Chen didn't think much about it, and said there was no problem, and helped him pay 350 yuan in advance.
But after several days, Xiao Chen did not see Lao Wang mentioning the repayment. At first she thought that Pharaoh had forgotten, so she occasionally reminded him euphemistically. But what I didn't expect was that this old king pretended not to know about it every time. It's okay if I don't remember it once or twice, but it's a bit wrong after reminding it several times.
Two months later, when Xiao Chen was thinking about this, he suddenly remembered that when Lao Wang borrowed money that time, he never said that he would pay it back. Xiao Chen finally realized that this old man was playing tricks with her, trying to cheat her and take advantage of her. Thinking of this, Xiao Chen became angry. It's not that for the 350 yuan, it's just that she has suffered a loss by being tricked by such a bad character, and she feels very uncomfortable.
But looking at it like this, even if you ask Lao Wang directly, you will definitely not come back, so you have to think of other ways. So Xiao Chen applied for a transfer project with the leader the next day. When Xiao Chen came back, he didn't talk to Lao Wang directly, so he sent 9 words to Lao Wang on WeChat: "The boss asked me to review your project." It didn't take long for Lao Wang to transfer 350 yuan. I gave it to Xiao Chen, and apologized to Xiao Mori, saying that I had forgotten it, and I was very embarrassed.
It turned out that Xiao Chen went to the leader to apply and asked himself to review Pharaoh's project, and the success of this project determined Pharaoh's commission. Lao Wang himself knew this very well, so when he saw that Xiao Chen would interfere with his own interests, he hurriedly repaid the money and wanted to repair it with Xiao Chen. And Xiao Chen got her money back, and after receiving the apology, she felt comfortable, and she also decided not to interact with Pharaoh again.
1. Stick to your bottom line
From this story, the inspiration we can get is to know how to stick to our bottom line. In the workplace, we often encounter people who like to encroach on the interests of others. When encountering such people and things, we must know how to stick to our bottom line and not let others easily cross, so as to protect our rights and interests from being infringed.
2. Stay away from people with bad character
The second is to know how to stay away from those who are not very good. The old man in this story is not very good, he likes to take advantage of others and does not pay back his money. When we encounter such people, we must know how to stay away in time, so as to protect our rights and interests, and on the other hand, to prevent ourselves from being angry.