At the dinner party, I missed the female leader when I gave everyone a cigarette. I was stunned when I received the text message at night.
At the dinner party, I missed the female leader when I gave everyone a cigarette. I was stunned when I received the text message at night.
After working in the workplace for a period of time, many people have come into contact with some wine table dinners, and they will understand that smoking and alcohol are basically inseparable from wine table dinners. These two can not only be used for entertainment, but also a tool for communication.
When we are at a dinner party, we must know how to make good use of these two tools. If we don’t know how to use these two tools, if we don’t understand the corresponding etiquette, if we don’t pay attention to making mistakes, we are likely to cause trouble for ourselves. . For example, smoking at a dinner party has certain particulars. For example, when smoking, it is best to smoke in a certain order, and do not pinch the cigarette holder to smoke.
1. Dinner invitation
Zhang Hua has not been working in the current company for a long time, only more than four months, but because Zhang Hua is very hardworking, not only is he very efficient at get off work every day, but he is still thinking about work-related things after work, or researching his own work. Whether the flow can still be optimized, or just thinking about which business module still needs to be learned.
And because of Zhang Hua's efforts, his work performance has become better and better, the efficiency of his work has become higher and higher, and the quality of his work has become better and better. And Zhang Hua's excellent performance was quickly noticed by the leaders, so the leaders arranged some more difficult jobs for Zhang Hua. But because of Zhang Hua's diligence, Zhang Hua also completed these tasks very well.
After inspecting Zhang Hua for a period of time, the leaders are very satisfied with Zhang Hua's work ability, but the more time Zhang Hua spends on work, the less time he spends on communication, and the leaders rarely see Zhang Hua and Colleagues have contacts. So the leader planned to take Zhang Hua to a few dinners to see how Zhang Hua was able to deal with people.
After get off work one day, Zhang Hua was stopped by the leader and went to a dinner with the leaders of the company. Because this dinner party is actually not very important, and the people present are also people from the company, even if Zhang Hua does not do well, it doesn't matter, there will be no serious consequences, so the leaders will bring Zhang Hua together go.
Second, the performance of the dinner
During the dinner, the leaders were sitting and chatting together, and Zhang Hua was by the side, serving the leaders. When the dinner was halfway through and the leaders had toasted each other, Zhang Hua's leader gave Zhang Hua a wink. Zhang Hua immediately understood, so he raised his glass and toasted with the leaders present in the order of seats.
When Zhang Hua was toasting, he also knew how to say some toasting words. Although he didn't say it very well, it was not bad. After reading it, Zhang Hua's leaders were quite satisfied. Then the leaders chatted for a while, and the leader gave Zhang Hua another wink. Zhang Hua was still understanding, took out the prepared cigarettes, and gave them to the people at the dinner table in turn.
When smoking, Zhang Hua also sent them in the order of seats. Zhang Hua's leaders watched Zhang Hua smoke and were satisfied with Zhang Hua's performance. But then, his face turned sour. It turned out that when Zhang Hua was smoking, he directly skipped a female leader and did not see the female leader's outstretched hands, which made the female leader embarrassed for a while.
3. Receive SMS
In the ensuing wine party, the leaders no longer winked at Zhang Hua, and Zhang Hua kept refilling the drinks and urging the leaders during the banquet. After a while, the wine party was over. After Zhang Hua's leader was over, because he had something to do with other leaders, he asked Zhang Hua to go back first. After Zhang Hua arrived home, although it was very late, Zhang Hua was still very energetic.
Because he felt that he performed very well today and that nothing went wrong, he would definitely be valued more by the leaders. But it didn't take long for Zhang Hua to receive a text message, and Zhang Hua was stunned when he saw it. It turned out that this text message was sent by the leader. The leader said in the text message that he was not very satisfied with Zhang Hua's performance. He hoped that Zhang Hua could continue to work hard and perform well in the future.