After retiring, I invited my former colleagues to have dinner, but only 4 people were present. After seeing the group news, I was silent.
After retiring, I invited my former colleagues to have dinner, but only 4 people were present. After seeing the group news, I was silent.
Many people feel a little empty in their hearts after retirement. In fact, most people are like this. When they are very busy, they will be more dissatisfied, but when they are too free, they will feel uneasy. Suddenly switching from a regular work schedule to a day where you don't have to do anything, and you won't have to do anything in the future, will fill your heart with a sense of discomfort and unease.
In order to eliminate this feeling of discomfort and unease, many people will start to find something to do for themselves, some are doing housework at home, some are going for a walk, exercising, some are going out to find something easier to do, but more The most important thing is to go out often, to have activities and exchanges with some of the same seniors, and in this kind of communication, they will not feel that time goes too slowly.
After retirement, because of this discomfort and unease, some people will miss the time when they are still working. Although they can no longer go back to work, fortunately, they can still go back to the work unit from time to time to have a look. Catch up with former colleagues.
1. The origin of the dinner
Wang Bin is such a person. He has just retired, and his life has changed so much all of a sudden. At first, he was relatively happy, but after that, he really felt bored and uneasy. So Wang Bin often went back to his original work unit to see. Although he could no longer work, he was still able to walk around the work unit, and when he met some new people who came to work, he could teach them by his side.
After two years, Wang Bin felt that life was even more difficult. It seemed that the time when he used to work was very far away. Wang Bin also misses the former colleagues who fought with him very much. Wang Bin really wanted to get together with his former colleagues, and as time went by, this idea became stronger and stronger. So at noon one day, Wang Bin sent a few messages to a group of colleagues who had not sent messages for a long time.
2. Participate in dinner parties
It probably means that the big guy hasn't seen each other for two years, and if it's only two days away, he will treat him as a guest. For a while, the group seemed to get a little lively again. Although some people did not respond, more than 20 people sent messages. After communicating for a while, sixteen people said they could come, but they were not sure.
Wang Bin warmly invited everyone and said that he hoped everyone would come. Former colleagues also expressed that they would definitely come if they could. Wang Bin was also very happy at the thought of being able to get together with his former colleagues. He was very popular among his colleagues and got along well with some colleagues. He felt that these colleagues should come. On the agreed day, Wang Bin went out very early.
Wang Bin arrived at the agreed place a long time in advance and began to wait for the arrival of his colleagues. But what Wang Bin didn't expect was that after waiting until the agreed time, only three people came. Wang Bin and them waited for another ten minutes before another one came. Wang Bin felt that something was wrong. Yesterday, he said that he could come. Wang Bin remembered 16 of them. So Wang Bin took out his phone and glanced at it.
Third, see the news
Wang Bin opened the colleague group and wanted to send a message in the group, but at this time, Wang Bin saw the news sent by other colleagues in the colleague group. It turned out that not long before the agreed time, many colleagues left messages in the group, saying that they could not come because of something, some said that they were not feeling well, some said that there was something at home, etc., and they all said that there was a chance to meet again.
After Wang Bin read the group news, he was silent for a long time. He seemed to know something. It turned out that he was the only one who wanted to get together with his colleagues. Other colleagues were unwilling to come. After they stopped working together, they were no longer willing to contact them. After having a simple meal with the 4 people who came, Wang Bin went home. He planned to never organize this kind of dinner with colleagues again. He was already an old man, so there was no need to struggle with such thankless things. Son.