A blind date is embarrassing! Teach you the three stages of blind date to remember
"Love at first sight" is very unlikely in real life, whether it's of the same sex or the opposite sex, at work or in private. Luckily, though, you've had a few flashpoints. Used to be a handsome man who was reluctant to leave once his eyes fell on him; once, you met a woman of the same age at a community event; once to the head of a client company, who was at a meeting Introduce yourself. When you meet for the first time, when you feel more than you like, what should you do? Showing your best self on a blind date may seem easy, but in fact, it's a very learned thing. Everyone who has experienced this kind of activity n times knows that there are three stages of blind date.
Don't be foolish to chase a girl, thinking that you can catch up with her if you are good to her. Most of the results are sent to your good person card out. I used to feel good to her, but after reading the book My Sister's Secret Art, Dongguo knew that it was easy for girls to catch up. Now there are many girls around me chasing me, and I really fought back. First, don't ask why the other person is single. I would like to ask people who are very sick. This question is mostly about "little women" hearing about "old men", and little women are very good because they are young. In fact, she most wanted to hear the man's answer. I can't fall in love because of work.
Second, don't talk about those chicken feathers at home and work. There is no such thing as trivial matters anywhere. Which child and parent have never been in trouble, and there is no brother or sister who is even less troublesome. In the workplace, work is actually also a relationship, but the honest officials separate the housework and tell them that they didn’t know each other when they first met. Her own people, she can't resonate.
Stage 1: Watch the accumulation period, showing subtlety and tension. Like students taking their first entrance exam, they feel restless and anxious. The odds of a second or later date are not high, and it's usually a "one-shot". Since then, I have forgotten the rivers and lakes.
The second stage: the period of bold pioneering. When blind dates become a habit, it's like losing something, and you won't be nervous or picky when you see too much and can't see it. Basically, I can see what I have and I will never be shy again. I'm embarrassed to ask this question, but like "Pian'er Police", I know each other's family, hobbies, education background, work and even my aunt, niece and nephew. In this period, if you can meet someone who can talk and meet all the conditions, you have to grab it because it is "meeting the right person at the right time" and you can't imagine a better future things happen. We should remind ourselves of the story of "the black blind man breaks the stick".
The third stage: waiting for the rabbit period. Once you miss the best of times, when blind dates go from habit to pain, all you can do is rely on the yin of your previous life. Since regret has no effect, let's dedicate ourselves to work or honor our parents and wait for the "oversized pie" to fall from the sky. Amen, if you send blessings, you can only bless. In conclusion, male or female, in your golden age, you have to marry yourself or win your heart. Only then can you comfort the hearts of countless people, parents, friends and relatives, and most importantly, yourself!
Who will accompany you to say goodbye to being single:
1. Go on a blind date naturally and frankly
Blind date, a traditional way of getting to know each other, has been resurrected in the new era. The biggest benefit of a blind date is that both parties are very aware of what they are doing and guarantee effective communication; since the blind date is introduced by someone else, it is impossible to know the whole story, but we do know a little bit. The credit threshold is artificially raised, and the level of fortification of all parties can be slightly lowered. If blind dates often turn out to be unsatisfactory, you should prepare for constant failure and war.
When someone is willing to match you, don't immediately take a reserved attitude, wave your hand and say, "The introduction must be better than the chance encounter", "I'm not in a hurry." In the face of enthusiastic introductions from others, you should dispel your concerns, unload your burdens, and accept them calmly. Also, when love is slow to come, you should drop your body and proactively mobilize friends and family to find someone for you.
2. Neither infatuated nor rejected online dating
Some people have to tell you not to believe the love fairy tales in online love, some people give you the advice to "see the light and die", but there are still many young people looking for love online, QQ blind date, dating in the same city, never miss any opportunity. If marital problems must be resolved through introductions, online dating is the easiest way. Many young people are so stressed at work that they don't have time to spend their time in love by meeting, talking, meeting and talking again and again. Online blind date does not need to meet, but you can "God Chat" online first. Determine whether it is necessary to meet, the efficiency is greatly improved. The embarrassment of meeting strangers is avoided, and online communication is relaxing.
Also, this method is more economical. For online dating, our attitude is neither infatuation nor rejection. It's just an additional channel of understanding and connection. Given the opportunity, a thousand miles of marriage will lead us. Many young people become "love poverty households", mainly because of their narrow life circles and it is difficult to get in touch with suitable marriage and love objects. In Nanjing, many organizations organize white-collar associations from time to time to build a good platform for young friends to make friends freely. Singles clubs and bachelorette parties initiated by similar businesses are also available. The key is whether the way of activity is innovative and attractive.
3. The real savior is yourself
Some "single" people have experienced failures in love, feel inferior, think they are useless, and have no chance to love in this life. Some older young people feel that they have no market in their marriage, close their hearts, and no longer open their hearts to the opposite sex easily, some carry a heavy burden, so they simply choose to give up and live alone for the rest of their lives.