'Don't use borrowing money to test a relationship', people's hearts are easy and unpredictable
Borrowing money happens to many people in life.
Whether it is to borrow money from others, or to be borrowed by others, it is an embarrassing and tricky thing.
It is not necessarily a friend who lends you money, and you are not a friend if you do not lend money. It cannot be generalized, and friendship and relationships cannot be measured by money.
When a fake friend drinks, they will say that you are not a friend until you finish the drink. When a real friend drinks, they say, don't drink too much;
When you borrow money, fake friends always make excuses, real friends always say how much to borrow; fake friends can accompany you to drink a few bottles of wine, and real friends can spend a long night with you.
The adult world is always busy, but true friends are few and far between.
- It is easy to add icing on the cake, but it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow ========================================================================================
Many people should have had this experience:
Few people are willing to lend a hand to help you when you are in trouble. Relatives and friends who usually seem to be well-connected are "pale when they have money" and want to stay away from you.
Even people you've helped before can change their faces when you're in trouble.
One day a few years ago, I suddenly received a call from my mother, saying that my second aunt called to help my cousin borrow money. I was still working at that time. I asked for the account number without a word and transferred the money.
Because as an adult, I know it's not easy to work hard in society. If others encounter difficulties, be sure to help, let alone your own relatives.
But a few years later, our family suddenly encountered a disaster and wanted to raise funds in an emergency, and the second aunt's family refused to answer the phone.
Don't think that if you help others, others must help you, because others' willingness to help you is a matter of emotion, and unwillingness to help you is a responsibility.
But the cold and evasive attitude of the other side is a real tool that can hurt people.
When you're rich, every day is crowded with people wanting you to make friends; when you're poor, you can become "lonely" overnight.
Especially after experiencing the avoidance and indifference of various relatives and friends, when you meet someone who is willing to help you, you cannot simply express your feelings at that moment with moving and gratitude.
Only people who are in deep trouble can feel the warmth and warmth of human affection. People who are willing to lend you money are worth your life.
- Get to know each other and get along with each other =======================================================
Nowadays, the social life of many people often stays on the surface, and the distant relatives in the past are not as familiar as the close neighbors now.
When you casually chat with others on some occasions, you should call such a person a brother, and the friends around you may be general friends.
However, such social interaction is not only time-consuming and labor-intensive, but also meaningless.
The most important thing in my heart is the opinions of others. For friends, the most important thing is to have a heart-to-heart relationship.
It's not the people who like you that matter, but the people who show up when you're most important, who accompany you when you're lonely, and those who take care of you when you're sad.
Friends are changed by heart. It's too cheap to exchange friendship by buying a nice gift.
A true friend doesn't need to be forced into a relationship, and you don't have to worry too much about those who just left.
Those who talk to you late at night, they greet you politely. People who are tired of talking to each other all day, don't say hello when they meet on the street.
This is the person in life, people around you always have to change people, and some people will come when they leave.
But when it comes to the final stop, I am still willing to accompany the people around you.
A true friend is like that, you can't say anything in front of you.
But when I'm not talking, you know everything.
Finally, you can consider:
When you are feeling down and most helpless, who is the person around you?
You probably rarely chat and say hello.
But they are always there when we need each other the most.
This guy really deserves the rest of your life.