These two faults reveal the level of your life
A person's level is often shown by his own words and deeds, especially the following two inadvertent habits, which reveal your level, and after knowing your level, only those who communicate with you know what method to use. Keep interacting with you, so when you move towards a higher-level circle of friends, you must get rid of these problems, otherwise high-level people will not play with you, because after they see your level clearly, they will not. It will lower his level, so these things still have a great impact on yourself, you must pay great attention and be vigilant, and don't affect the overall situation of your own development because of these small faults.
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[1] Attitude towards strangers.
Anyone who discriminates against strangers likes to fight in their own nests. When they meet strangers, they don't know what they are coming from, and they don't even dare to fart. This kind of people who will only be rude to people they know well, we want Learn to stay away, or you'll get tangled up with him and make yourself a mess.
Most of the appearance of a person in front of strangers is disguised, and the real side is very little, so when you meet a new friend, he will see how you behave in front of strangers, If the performance is not real at all, he will know very clearly that you are also a very hypocritical person. Maybe he will have a lot of brooding in his heart, and there are many places to guard against you, so after a long time he will I don't give you my heart, I don't tell you the truth, and I don't tell you the truth, so everyone should pay attention to some performances in front of strangers, and don't let their inadvertent actions sell themselves so thoroughly , then completely.
[2] Style when arguing with people.
High-level people, when confronted with disputes, he will definitely make concessions first. Letting things calm down is the first priority, while for low-level people, putting aside their own responsibilities is the first priority. It looks like a person who is not literate. In reality, he must learn to make concessions, take retreat as advance, and attack as defense.
When you are arguing with others, whether a person is high-level or low-level can also be very prominent. If you let others see that you are unrelenting, it itself shows that there is a problem with your pattern. It can be seen that once you encounter a dispute, you first step back to make people feel that you are a person who cares about the overall situation, so sometimes some of your inadvertent performance makes others feel completely different, no matter what the situation. Remember to open up your heart, open your heart, learn to forgive others and forgive others, when others don't understand you, don't explain too much, when you have a problem with others Let’s take a step first, we can’t let the contradiction continue to expand, and we can’t be entangled because of our own greed. Sometimes we are righteous when we talk about Gao Feng’s understanding to others, but once it comes to ourselves, we always seem confused. .