It's really good to say that people who are poor don't have three relatives.
Regarding family relationships and many things we have experienced, in some special periods, we cannot think according to normal thinking, especially when people are poor, there are three types of relatives who cannot visit, or try to have as little closeness as possible. Contact, try to avoid doing the following things as much as possible when you have no money, so as to ensure that you can improve and break through faster.
[1] Mo Chuan, relatives who are sticky and staring - if your relatives are particularly clingy and want to make a fortune through you, they will stare at you every day, but also be careful, don't be embarrassed when they can't make their faces. Incredible.
This kind of relative actually has a mentality of getting something for nothing, and wants to bring him huge benefits through you. If you are entangled by this kind of relative, and you are embarrassed to make trouble with him, your situation will be very, very embarrassing, so It's better not to string such relatives.
[2] Mo Chuan, a relative of Pigeon Eyes - Chuan Lai Chuan has no other use except to sprinkle salt on your wounds.
One of the biggest characteristics of this kind of family relationship is that when you are not doing well, you are not willing to interact with you at all. When you are doing well, you continue to please and praise you. You know this kind of relative you go to When you are very poor, you will be treated unfairly when interacting with him, or it will make him look down on you very much, adding a layer of poison to Sister Yu's heart. It is better to keep yourself away from such relatives and wait until you get along well. At times, you can feel at ease when dealing with it.
[3] Mo Chuan, a clinging relative - if you are poor, he will despise you, if you are rich, he will eat you, you must learn to laugh, and the same is true for your relatives
This kind of relative is also something we should pay attention to avoid or use some special methods to deal with. In fact, we should have the same mental state when we treat our relatives and other people in the society. After seeing this person, we do not exclude or we It's the same with the emotion that blood is thicker than water, but there is still a difference in the actual treatment.
- No money and less attention to three things
[1] Don't worry about guaranteeing people - if you are so poor, your guarantee will only make people laugh, and it will be regarded as a big-nosed onion.
Many people are poor and have no strength, but they don't admit it, and they always feel that they have a lot of face in front of others, so they always like to guarantee this and that with others. Remember that you have no strength, and everything you do guarantees others will. You think it's worthless, and you still feel very unhappy when others take your face away. Wouldn't it be over if you don't get involved in these things?
[2] Don't worry about emotional matters--emotion is that it is not clear who is right and who is wrong, and who cares who is unlucky.
This kind of thing is also extremely troublesome. When you have no influence, you manage this kind of thing. First, your words have no weight. Second, if you manage well, everyone will be happy. If you don’t manage well, you will be blamed for all complaints. When the time comes, you won't be able to eat and walk around. Many people are scolded every day after taking care of this kind of thing. Isn't it just that they are doing this shit? When it comes to emotional matters, it’s hard to tell the truth, so don’t get entangled in these things, let yourself be relieved.
[3] Pay less attention to money matters - but anyone who is in trouble because of money is not a fuel-efficient lamp, nor is he a good birdman.
Whether it is in the work unit or among my friends, matters involving money and finances are more sensitive, and they are the things that everyone actively pays attention to, and are the most likely to cause disputes and contradictions. So, on the premise of doing your own thing well, try to avoid these things as much as possible. Once you have intervened in these things, it may bring you endless trouble in the future. A greedy greedy person who is not in vain.
