What is the difference between a single-child family and a second-child family? It will become clearer over time

Children are an eternal topic. In recent years, with the liberalization of national policies, the second child has become a hot topic again. Whether or not to have a second child has become a problem faced by many families. If you don’t have a second child, you are afraid of missing this opportunity. Having a second child is still quite stressful. Of course, there are also families who insist on not having a second child. They think it is good to have only one child.

Teacher Wang's family has two daughters. Now both daughters have married and established a family. Both daughters are now a family with one child. Regarding the issue of having a second child, Teacher Wang also persuaded the two daughters. Although they are siblings of the same mother, their attitudes Quite the opposite.

The eldest made it clear that she would not want a second child. She felt that a child was good, and there was no need to have another child. She wanted to raise this child well. The second daughter doesn't think so. The second child is willing to have a second child. Whether from the child's point of view or from her own point of view, the second child should be. And specifically because of this topic, there was also a family debate competition. In the end, the mother said that the mother is reasonable and the public is reasonable. I still want what I want, and don't want what I don't want.

Raising a child is like a fish drinking water and knowing it's cold and warm, so whether or not to have a second child is also everyone's personal experience. Today, let’s analyze from an objective point of view, the respective situations of the one-child family and the second-child family.

1. What are the advantages of a single-child family? ====================================================

• 1. Parents are less financially stressed

Relatively speaking, families with only one child may have less financial pressure on the family. Now it is easy to have children, but it is too difficult to raise children, and it is even more difficult to raise a good child. The cost of raising children is so high that if there are really 2-3 children in the family, the cost of raising children alone is not a small expense. Therefore, the only child is relatively less financially stressed.

• 2. Children can get more care

The more children there are, the more energy will definitely be involved. The love and energy of parents are limited. If the children have more love, they must be separated and shared with each child. The only child does not need to worry about such problems, and the love of parents does not need to be divided into pieces, and it is directly placed on one child.

• 3. Children's education is more specific

Parents' education is also a problem when there are too many children. Too many children always press the gourd and go up again, taking care of this and delaying that. When there is a problem with the children's education, the parents are also annoyed. The only child parents put all their energy on this child. For example, if the education fund of 1,000 yuan is for 2 children, each person can only use 500 yuan, and if a child can use it all on him, the effect will definitely be different.

Of course, some parents always feel that there are more children in the family. Even if they know it is easy to raise one child, they are still willing to have two. Of course, having more children also has the advantage of having more children. The advantages of a second-child family are reflected in these aspects.

2. What are the benefits of a second-child family for children? ===============================================================

• 1. Children have playmates since childhood

The only-child family has a child who is alone since childhood, lacks playmates in life, and is sometimes quite lonely. And many second-child families choose to have a second child for no other reason than to want a playmate for the child, so that when the two grow up together, they will have someone to accompany you to share their joys, sorrows, and joys. Wealth is useful.

• 2. When you grow up, you have to rely on

The children of the second-child family can have someone they can rely on when they encounter difficulties when they grow up. At least when they encounter difficulties, they can have someone to discuss with. Blood is thicker than water. Family affection will never stop. And only children have no children. When they grow up, they can only rely on themselves. They can only try to make themselves excellent, and they will not be held back when they encounter difficulties.

• 3. Less stress when the child grows up

Children from second-child families are less stressed than single-child families when they grow up. For example, people are born, old, sick, and dying. In the future, if their parents are sick, if it is a child, the responsibility for taking care of the parents falls entirely on him. The second-child family has at least two children, so that the two can be replaced by turns, which is relatively less economical or time pressure.

In fact, raising children is the same as planting crops. There is no such thing as unearned good things in the world. If the crops grow well, farmers must put in time and energy. The same is true of children. The energy spent in raising one is different from raising two, and the return of children to their parents in the future is also different. In the final analysis, whether a one-child family is better or a second-child family is better still needs to be viewed dialectically.

3. Is a single-child family better or a second-child family better? ===================================================================

Of course, this question is not absolute, and the essence of the problem is different from different angles. There is no way to definitively say whether a one-child family is better or a second-child family better.

For example, when parents consider the education of their children, it does not necessarily mean that the children of a child's family will be educated well in the future, and it is not necessarily that the education of a second-child family cannot keep up. Some time ago, I also saw the Douyin of a fourth-born mother on Douyin. Although there are four children, they are all well-bred. The quality of children's cultivation is not in the number of children but in how parents educate their children.

There is also the issue of parenting that parents are worried about in the future. Having more children and waiting for someone to take care of them when they are old, of course, this question is thought of this way, but it may not be able to get what they want in the future. Such examples are often seen in life. The elderly are sick, and there are 2-3 children in the family. If the children are not good, the more children they care about. Today he spends more time with his parents and takes more money, and tomorrow he spends less time with his parents. The only child will not face such a problem, because they have no one to care about. When I was a child, I enjoyed the favor of my parents alone, and when I grew up, I could also take on the heavy responsibility of taking care of my parents alone.

In the end, the financial issue of raising children, of course, the more the children spend, the more money they spend, but on the other hand, if the children are educated well, the returns to their parents will be more in the future. It is beautiful to think that every child saves trouble and does not have to worry about parents and can stand up when parents need it. The same is true for a child. If parents can nurture their children into talents, they will be able to enjoy happiness in the future. Whether it is an only-child or a second-child family, if the parents do not raise their children well, the parents will have endless worries in the future, and now it is very common to gnaw on the old.

Of course, only-child and second-child families are not absolutely good or bad. They are all relative. No matter how many children are born, parents must be responsible for the life they are born. Parents are worthy of their children, and children will be worthy of their parents in the future.