In the early childhood of children, there is always the phenomenon of procrastination and procrastination. This makes many parents very annoyed. However, many times they are beaten and scolded, but the child is still the same, and does not take the parent's discipline to heart. In fact, if you want to change your child's dawdling style, parents can help their children develop time management skills through the " law of eating frogs " and completely change the phenomenon of dawdling.

Before she became a mother, Ms. Wang always didn't understand why her brother was furious when he disciplined his son, and he had no patience for the child. She often persuaded her brother to teach her children to be gentle, but she never thought that her brother would laugh at her that she didn't understand anything, and she would know it when she had a child.

After Ms. Wang had a daughter herself, she realized how naive she was in the past. Many times in the face of my daughter's dawdling phenomenon, I really can't control my emotions, and I always have to shout a few words. It was a very simple question, but the child couldn't understand it. He sat at the desk and dawdled, looking at the eraser for a while, and playing with the pencil for a while. After an hour passed, he only wrote three or four words.

Many parents must have faced the situation of Ms. Wang. When educating their children, they were so angry that they were dragged and dragged by their children. In fact, the performance of children is often influenced by internal factors. If parents can understand the real reason for their children's dawdling phenomenon, they can naturally solve the problem from the root.

What are the common reasons why children procrastinate and procrastinate?

1. No time management awareness

Children procrastinate and procrastinate, most likely due to lack of awareness of time management. Many children lack a basic understanding of time, and don't even know the difference between 5 minutes and 10 minutes. He has only a general concept of time, and naturally he does not know that his dawdling behavior is a waste of time. Therefore, parents need to help their children in time management, so that children can understand the meaning of time and how to manage time, so that they can effectively solve the phenomenon of procrastination.

2. Parents are not good role models

Children are dawdling in things, and it is very likely that their parents did not set a good example. Many adults also suffer from procrastination, which means staying in bed and avoiding housework in their lives. This behavior is seen in the eyes of children and will naturally imitate. Parents do not set a good example, causing children to develop bad habits. Therefore, parents need to regulate their own behavior and show their active life and punctuality in front of their children, which can effectively solve the child's dawdling situation.

3. Deliberate confrontation with parents

Many times, children's dawdling is actually a confrontation with their parents. Due to the frequent preaching of the parents or the overly negative educational attitude of the parents, hostility and rebellious emotions arose in the hearts of the children, so they deliberately confronted the parents by dawdling, trying to cause trouble for the parents. This is a very childish mentality, but parents need to pay enough attention. Guiding children to resolve negative emotions and establish a close relationship with their parents can effectively alleviate the occurrence of drowsiness.

Among the above three reasons, time management is the most fundamental problem. Therefore, parents should pay enough attention to help children master the way of managing time and have a clear understanding of time. It is possible to teach children the correct use of time and management of time through the "law of eating frogs".

What is the "law of eating frogs"?

The "eat the frog" rule was proposed by the American orator Born Tracy. He stated in his book: " You need to discover the three most important things in a day, a week, a month, a whole year, or even in your life, and these three things are the "frogs" you must eat. Don't spend time watching them, and if you're going to eat these "frogs" in a row, remember to eat the biggest and ugliest one first! "

That is, parents need to help their children pick out the three most important things in their daily chores to rank. When children complete the most difficult things and learn to manage time in the process, they will naturally be able to handle other less difficult things with ease. Effectively alleviate the phenomenon of children's dawdling and improve children's time management ability.

How can parents develop children's time management skills?

1. Identify the tasks that need to be done

First, parents need to help their children identify the tasks that must be completed. Parents cannot instill boring theories on their children and unilaterally force their children to plan tasks. Instead, the child should be guided to participate and let the child analyze which task is the most important. You can take out a piece of paper and guide the child to clearly write out the things that need to be done, so that the child can summarize and coordinate, and intuitively realize what he needs to accomplish every day. This will help children to allocate time subjectively, and to be more clear about what they need to do.

2. Sort "Frogs"

Secondly, parents need to guide their children to sort out the tasks written, that is, the "frogs" that need to be eaten. Put the hardest things first, and eat one before moving on to the next. For example, for many children, learning may be the most difficult thing, so parents can guide their children to prioritize learning. Only after completing the learning task, can follow-up other affairs be carried out. If children want to gain more play time or watch cartoons, they should complete learning tasks quickly so that they can have more free time.

3. Time progress of protecting the "frog"

Finally, because young children lack the self-control ability of behavior and the ability to control time, parents need to do a good job of watching and assisting. Help the child protect the progress of each "frog" being eaten. When the child's progress is slow, parents should give appropriate reminders. Ask the child to complete the tasks in strict accordance with the order that has been set. For example, when children do not complete their learning tasks, they cannot let them play with toys and watch cartoons. Teach your child to realize that his time is passing and that he needs to hurry.

When children have the ability to manage their own time, they feel that they are in control of their time. Finding that time can improve efficiency in their own planning, the child will naturally change the phenomenon of procrastination and be able to allocate their time reasonably. Therefore, parents may wish to try the "eating frog rule" to help children grade and optimize tasks and cultivate children's time management skills.

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