Workplace: Without these three abilities, don't complain that you are not the one being reused! Very incisive!
In the workplace, the most important thing is not ability, but ability is also very important.
I saw a video on Douyin saying: If you want a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, you need to improve your job-related knowledge; if you want a monthly salary of more than 30,000 yuan, you need to systematically learn some project management knowledge;
If you want a monthly salary of more than 50,000 yuan, you need to make more contacts with big names in the industry and learn to integrate resources to bring higher value to the company.
Workplace: Without these three abilities, don't complain that you are not the one being reused! Very incisive!
It's not difficult to master the above, it's just a matter of time. So, what abilities are important, but many people don't have?
The ability to think and judge independently
Psychologists have conducted an experiment on the phenomenon of conformity. The psychologist asked college students as his subjects, a group of 6, and told him to do a vision experiment.
When the last subject came to the scene, 5 subjects (actually, Tuo) were already seated. The experiment is to compare a piece of paper with a straight line and three straight lines on another piece of paper to find the one with the same length.
After two correct judgments, the five fake subjects chose the wrong answer in unison, while the real subjects were puzzled. The results showed that 33% of the subjects chose conformity, and 76% of the subjects had at least one conformity behavior.
Following the trend is not a bad thing. But you can't blindly follow the trend, you must think independently, judge what you are suitable for and what you need, and you must analyze specific problems in detail.
For example, when a leader asks you for your opinion on a matter, don’t say “I think the same way as anyone.” Leaders want to hear more voices and see more perspectives, rather than unanimously “partnering opinions”.
We have heard the saying "Three stooges beat one Zhuge Liang", and please don't forget the saying "Truth is often in the hands of a few".
Workplace: Without these three abilities, don't complain that you are not the one being reused! Very incisive!
The ability to be alone with oneself
There are also many people who think a lot, but when they need to judge and make choices, they can't make up their minds, and they still don't know themselves well enough. Of course, there may also be a lack of knowledge.
Therefore, we need time alone with ourselves, one is to understand ourselves, and the other is to acquire knowledge, so that we can grow rapidly and become better people.
Many people are afraid of being alone, afraid of being told that they don’t fit in with the group, changing their good habits, hiding their advantages, sacrificing the time for self-growth, and also integrating into a “group”, which is really not worth it.
If the leader asks you to deal with one thing alone or go on a business trip, and you also need someone to accompany you, what the company wants you to do is obviously a job that can be done by one person.
Workplace: Without these three abilities, don't complain that you are not the one being reused! Very incisive!
The ability to obtain happiness
Whether we pursue money, status, or feelings all our lives, we ultimately want to achieve happiness and live a happy life. It may seem simple, but achieving happiness is also a skill.
Many people nowadays pretend they don't want anything at a young age. I feel that I have lost interest in life and do not want to do anything. Work also means quitting when you quit, without thinking about the future at all.
If that's the case, then what's the point of working hard to earn money? It's not good to just live your life casually.
I have two secrets to happiness: one is to expect less, and then be happy when you get it, you will feel a real surprise, and you will not be disappointed because you are full of expectations first.
The second is to strive for everything you want and take the initiative. For example, if there is a project that I want to do at work, I will take the initiative and make a plan in advance.
Workplace: Without these three abilities, don't complain that you are not the one being reused! Very incisive!
In short, these three abilities will make our life and work better. If you don’t have the above abilities, don’t complain that you are not reused or be jealous of your colleagues.
What ability do you think you need most? Welcome to leave a message below.