Have you ever participated in team building or gatherings in the company? If you have participated in such group building or gatherings, have you seen some strange things? Today I'm going to talk about a very interesting thing: at that time, we spent a total of two hours eating, but we were struggling with how to check out, and how to check out took 5 hours. So that at 12 o'clock that night, the owner of the hotel couldn't stand it anymore, so we left after giving us a discount. Let's take a look at that wonderful party trip together.

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In fact, before the dinner party, there were a few girls who were provocative. They said there: should we have the AA system, the AB system, or the ABb system this time, or should the boys treat the girls free of charge? At that time, we thought it was just a joke, and we didn't care. Who knew that after the meal was finished, when we asked AA to settle the bill, several of the girls suddenly jumped up.

In fact, we didn't eat much for this meal. It was about 80 yuan per person on average. In addition to other entertainment items in the morning, it was 100 yuan per person. But who ever thought that one of the female colleagues said: We shouldn't take 80, the reason is very simple, because we don't smoke or drink at all, there are several male colleagues over there who smoke, they drink, they smoke these The cigarettes and the alcohol that you drink should be taken out separately, and then this part can be scraped off before AA.

After the female colleague finished speaking, another female colleague said: Indeed, we should not AA, I only ate a piece of chicken, a piece of rice, and nothing else, why let me AA? I should only pay for the piece of chicken I ate and the bowl of rice I ate, which is about three dollars combined.

Immediately after that, another lesbian said: Yes, we really shouldn't have AA system. When I walked to this restaurant just now, I thought it was unsanitary, so I didn't eat a single bite. You AA, I will not AA.

After the female colleague finished speaking, a male colleague next to him became anxious. He said: Today, I had a bad appetite, so I just ate two mouthfuls of rice. I ate one crayfish just now, and then I ate one crab, except for I didn't eat anything other than these. If that's the case, the AA system would have to dig me out.

The organizer was immediately confused. He never expected such a result. After that, another person said: Just now, this little girl ate a lot, and she was very fat, and she weighed 180 pounds. Then she should take the big head and we should take the small head.

Then another lesbian said: So-and-so eats a lot, he should take the big head, we should take the small head. Just tossing and turning, tossing and tossing, tossing and tossing for several hours but still not getting a solution, and the previously mentioned AA system was changed to ab system, and then changed to abb system, and finally changed back and forth. Nothing was resolved, instead there was a lot of complaints.

In the end, everyone decided to use the AA system. Those who are unwilling to pay are ignored. The big deal will not bring them next time. In this way, a few of us paid, and in the end, the meal ended up unhappy.

How should the dinner party be broken?

Someone said: Since everyone is sitting together to eat, theoretically there is no need to divide them so clearly. It is almost the same as an average of each other. At best, you take advantage and I will lose a bit. ? Yes and no.

Because we need to know that there are differences between men and women, and it is precisely because of the differences between men and women that if the AA system is just one size fits all, some people will indeed complain. With this opportunity today, let's take a look at what problems will arise under the premise of one-size-fits-all.

Question 1: Some women do suffer.

We need to know that whether it is smoking or drinking, it costs a lot of money. To give a simple example, a bottle of wine may cost 30 yuan in ordinary places, and it may be 40 or 50 yuan in a hotel. It's useless to drink, so some men are also cleaning up that part of the wine AA.

Similarly, smoking is also true. Of course, if women also smoke, they can also take it out separately, and then share the money equally. As for the others, there is really no need to distinguish too clearly. You eat one more piece of meat, I eat less meat, you eat a crab, I eat a bowl of noodles, there is no need to take out this thing, eating a piece of itself is a picture of happiness and joy.

Second: Men are relatively careless and more nervous.

They can't quite tell what to do under what circumstances, or they don't bother to care about these things. They are 80 cents. You are 10 yuan, 50 yuan, 50 yuan, and 300 yuan. This is almost the same. Men themselves are careless. , Women are relatively delicate. Of course, being delicate does not mean that there are problems or faults, it is just a comparison of different personalities.

Because of this, there is no need for us to completely blend the two different personalities, just to have a meal.

Workplace Apocalypse

In the workplace, if everyone can sit at the same table for a meal, it means that the relationship between these few people is still very good. At the same time, why do girls not drink at dinner parties? Why is the sentence AA somewhat disturbing. But if you think about it carefully, it seems like this, people don't drink alcohol, you can't force them to make AA.

At this time, it is somewhat uncomfortable to force others to use the AA system. So in this case, we just have to follow a specific situation, a specific analysis. After a specific analysis, it is enough to make a specific result. As for those tobacco and alcohol, if the woman really does not drink it, then the big deal is that the man can AA the tobacco and alcohol , but it can only be done to this extent.

If you pick the bones in the eggs, you have to eat the remainder of the meal that everyone eats. If there are a few pieces of meat left, will the boss pay for the money for these pieces of meat? That is obviously not suitable, and the rest of the AA is AA. Guys, what do you think about this? You are welcome to leave a message in the comment area.