Have you ever received a phone call like this inexplicably in your workplace?

There is still half an hour before a certain dinner, and at this time someone suddenly called and invited us to go to dinner, should we go or not at this time?

My friend experienced something like this some time ago, and he told me not to go, never to go, let's take a look at what happened at that time.

A sudden call

That night, my friend and I worked overtime together. During the process of working overtime, my friend suddenly received a call. Originally, he jumped out to answer the phone, but after answering the phone, he was like an eggplant from Shuang, and he came back. After that, he didn't say a word, and sat down on his stool all of a sudden.

To be honest, it scared us enough. We thought that something happened to our friend, or something happened at home, or something happened to our marriage relationship. We took the time to come and console our friend and ask what happened to his family. After all, we The relationship is very good, although I can't help my friend solve 100% of the problem, but most of them can be relieved.

If a friend borrows money or something, we can subsidize it to some extent. The friend said: It's okay, maybe I'm thinking too much. I just received a dinner party. All of a sudden, it confuses us even more. We must know that although the performance of friends in the company is not good, they are typical gluttons. If there is a dinner party in the company, it is estimated that he will be the first to rush ahead without saying anything. Why did he suddenly receive a call, this call was still a dinner party, and he behaved so abnormally that he was not happy at all?

My friend saw our doubts and told us that because this dinner party was still more than 20 minutes away from the real meal, that is to say, he called me within half an hour before the dinner party, so I absolutely could not go. At that time, we were even more confused after listening to it. My friend smiled and said: You haven't been with you for a long time in the workplace, and you don't know the worldly manners inside.

I just want to tell you one thing, if you suddenly receive a call before the dinner, and the call is received within half an hour before the dinner, don't bother your eyes. At this time, it is the same with you and without you.

At a dinner party in the workplace, I answered the phone half an hour before I learned

First of all, we can't say that 100% of the calls received half an hour before a dinner party must be malicious or something, but we can't rule out the following situations, let's take a look.

Situation 1: Temporarily ask you to come, and let you act as the head.

What does this mean? In short, if we play mahjong, three people can't play mahjong, right? It is necessary to call and call another person quickly. It is just right for four people to play mahjong together, and they can also take care of each other. The same is true for a dinner party. If we have only three or four people at the dinner party, but we have reserved a seat for 5 people at the beginning, it always feels strange that there is one less person.

Especially the right-hand man beside me is suddenly gone, so I have to find a few more people to help me at this time, and I will call you half an hour before the dinner, and insist that you must come. Show that you are the one who helps keep things going.

In other words, you may be worthless or worthless in the heart of the person who calls you, but he has to call you over. Because without you, this field can't be opened. He needs to find a substitute to support the field, and you are the only candidate for that substitute. Thinking about it this way, is it a little bit slack?

Situation 2: Your friend doesn't want you to come at all.

In the past, I experienced something like this: when I was in my third year of college, I met our senior, and then our senior met her senior, so our senior wanted to invite her senior to come together. For a meal, we were the foil at that time.

Then our senior suddenly said: No, I have to hurry up and call another senior of yours and ask him if he will come to eat. At that time, we all felt that it was too late, because we were only 5 minutes away from eating, and then my senior smiled and said: Yes, it is too late, I hate him, and your seniors also hate him. A phone call, he will not talk about this matter in the future.

If you call him in 5 minutes, he will definitely not come, so in another case, if you call a few minutes before dinner, nine times out of ten, it means that we have this dinner, and it is not that we did not miss you. Just thought of you, but called you and you didn't come.

Alas, you can't blame us in this case, who let you have no time for yourself. In most cases, people don't have time, so they have to politely refuse. It is precisely because of this that such a dinner seems meaningless, and my position among friends is probably not as good as an ant.

Workplace Apocalypse

Then someone asked me: If you suddenly receive such a call, will you come to dinner? I said: eat, why not eat? Relatively speaking, my heart may be bigger. I don't want to eat free food. You can let me support the scene or let me take the seat. I'm sorry, we have to come when we should come. Eat what you need to eat.

Not only do we come to eat, we also have to eat happily and happily. The so-called wine bureau should not call for half an hour before. This kind of thing may or may not be heard, but there are specific situations to analyze. If the boss of the company is polite, or the person who can wear small shoes for you is polite, you should be properly cautious at that time.

If you still have to come in that situation, you will be fired after the meal. Guys, what do you think about this? You are welcome to leave a message in the comment area.