A person with a deep sense of government often has these three characteristics. You must learn to distinguish them, and they will benefit a lot.
In today's society, simple-minded people often suffer big losses, especially for workplace people, and they should be careful. If they are not careful, mistakes may occur. So we must pay attention not to pay for IQ,
Especially in the face of some unfathomable workplace villains, although we do not need to be like them, we still have to learn to protect ourselves in many cases. Of course, protecting ourselves is one aspect, and we should know more about it. right or wrong,
For example, people who often do the following three things are often very scheming, and we must remember to pay attention when we communicate.
A person with a deep sense of government often has these three characteristics. You must learn to distinguish them, and they will benefit a lot.
- Competitive
In the workplace, you are worthless if you are not motivated. However, self-motivation ≠ utilitarianism of being competitive. Often too strong utilitarian heart will lose people's true heart, so that you can hide your heart and become shrewd.
A colleague is going to continue to go to postgraduate entrance examination, and also found a small partner to review with. She wakes up at dawn every morning, goes to bed on time at night, and sometimes stays out of the door. In our eyes, she is serious enough.
Her little friend who took the postgraduate entrance examination was a little more fun, and sometimes my colleagues would also care about how she was reviewing and so on. At this time, she will also pretend to be twisted: "Oh, me too, I'm too busy with work all day, and I want to play after get off work, just like you..."
In fact, she was afraid that others would study better than her. A sincere friend will always kindly remind and encourage those around you to study hard and so on. If there is someone around us who is afraid that others are better than us, we don't have to contact her.
She's too competitive and can sometimes give you a "pigtail" on something. Stay away from them, stay away from right and wrong.
A person with a deep sense of government often has these three characteristics. You must learn to distinguish them, and they will benefit a lot.
- People who like to talk behind their backs
This type of person is very emotional. For them, others may not remember how good they are to you, but if others treat you badly, they must be publicized and discussed everywhere. I remember that we had a colleague who had a good relationship in the past. One day I was too busy with work and refused his request,
As a result, he said bad things about me behind his back, saying that I was valued by the leaders and didn't care about other colleagues. In the end, my relationship with some colleagues was not as good as before.
So if your colleague is a person who likes to complain and has strong negative emotions, you must pay attention, because once you do not agree to his request, he will likely be bad-mouthed and wear small shoes.
A person with a deep sense of government often has these three characteristics. You must learn to distinguish them, and they will benefit a lot.
- Nice to everyone
There is a lyric called "Love is not so easy, everyone has his temper", although this describes love. But I think this is also very suitable for interpersonal communication in the workplace.
Everyone has their own temperament and aura, it is impossible to get along well with everyone, and it is impossible to like every colleague. If you find in the workplace that you have colleagues who are very nice to everyone and don't lose their temper, then you should pay attention.
Don't use him arbitrarily, bully him, maybe he will hold revenge in his heart. There is a character called "Lao Jin" in "The First Half of My Life", and everyone says he is an honest man. He is usually good to everyone, but when he is rejected by the heroine,
He showed his true self, began to say ugly things to the heroine, and also encouraged his colleagues to speak of the heroine.