The more you do these three things, the worse you will fail, no exceptions, no contingency
Many people are reluctant to admit some of the things they have done in the face of their failed lives. In fact, in my opinion, the more you do the following three things, the worse you will fail in the end. There are no exceptions. Not in case.
[1] Bullying and looking down on the weak.
This is the single most important factor that causes a person to fail. In fact, everyone has their own strengths, and there is something we can learn from, that is, the so-called three-person walk must have my teacher. If you look down on people who are weaker than you and look down on people who are worse than you, it is actually a kind of conceit, a kind of loftiness, and a kind of character problem. There is a very classic saying that you can't afford to look at me now, but I won't let you climb high in the future. Ten years of Hedong, ten years of Hexi, on the way of our life growth, at key turning points, we are often overlooked. That person pulled us at the most critical time, helped us at the most critical time, and let us change our destiny. If you always look down on the weak in your heart, try to bully them and make fun of them. With a cynical attitude, then you will definitely encounter many hurdles on the road of life, and it is these people that you despise that finally block your way. So from this moment on, treat everyone with admiration. You will find that there are very few bad people in this world. It won't take long before you find that the person you looked down on suddenly changed your attitude. The better and better, the business will become more and more smooth.
[2] Bravery and gas.
A truly successful person must be very low-key. He secretly admonishes himself in his heart that I am weak now, I need to be strong, I need to be successful, instead of being brave in front of people, fighting with others, and following others everywhere. People quarrel. Be brave in the face of the strong, and you are self-defeating. Ambition in front of everyone, you just look down on yourself. Many people slap their ears ruthlessly, and it is these two things that are causing the havoc. You are brave in front of others, and in the end it is you who is embarrassed. You get angry with people who are stronger than you, and you are the one who fails in the end. So from now on, run these two things into the back of your head completely, if you really swear what length you want to achieve, then start taking action, don't talk about it and be brave with others, do it to yourself It doesn't make any sense to talk about it, it doesn't do any good for one's own development, and it doesn't have any stimulus for one's own change.
[3] High profile and making enemies.
When a person has no strength, the more high-profile it is, the more it will be looked down upon by others. Because other people don't believe you at all, so it's the best choice to show it to others. On the way of their own growth, many people have set up many enemies for themselves, not because others are bad, but because they always feel that they are good. In fact, everyone in this world has his own mission. If you set up too many enemies for yourself on the way of your struggle, it is best to make you lose in a mess, and you will never be able to get up again. You know, when the enemy of your assistant, when you encounter setbacks, ruthlessly If you step on you a few times, it will make you really unable to get up. In our hearts, it is enough to know that this person is bad. There is no need to offend him. Isn’t it a better choice to laugh and wave goodbye? Learn to keep a low profile, learn to treat everyone seriously, don't set up enemies for yourself, and don't let your high profile harm yourself.