I am an overtime maniac, I hope you all cooperate with me
The company recruited a foreigner. When he first joined the company, he said, "I'm an overtime fanatic! I hope everyone will cooperate with me"... A month later, the foreigner resigned. Before leaving, he said: "You guys It's inhumane to work overtime like this..."
I believe that many people will be crazy when they mention overtime, and most people don’t like to work overtime, but there are also some people who love to work overtime. What's more, work overtime is addicting!
I especially like to work overtime. It is likely that the source of self-worth in life is relatively single, and I can only obtain external achievements and results in non-stop work to fill the internal sense of lack. Generally, such people actually have very little space and time for their own life, and are usually accompanied by a state of lack of emotional experience or even estrangement. Maybe they will have a good social support system, they can establish a good relationship with others, and they have the capital and conditions to enjoy life, but they will either actively or passively choose a life of constant work and overtime. In fact, it can be referred to as "finding". In fact, when most people are in modern society, if the pressure in their lives is too great, they will "seek for supplements" through work/study in order to escape the anxiety of reality and the inner sense of lack.
So what is the heart of the overtime maniac?
- Being satisfied with a need.
Second, the rising anxiety is relieved.
- Strong sense of professionalism and responsibility.
Some people work overtime mostly because there are too few things in life other than work that can bring you satisfaction. Many people are overwhelmed when faced with their free time and their self in solitude. Because once the hand stops, the thinking in the brain is released, and most of the flying is not calm, but more anxiety and fear. Empty in the heart, unable to find direction or hobbies, and use overtime to numb his life.
Some people work overtime to "please" their bosses. The bigger the leader is, the harder it is to get rid of the feeling of being embraced by others. Even if it's just temporarily off work, it's too deep into this role. It's definitely not suitable for you to be an ordinary person at home. , so they would rather stay in the unit for a while longer, and do everything possible to stay and work overtime. It is nothing more than wanting to be a god and emperor for one more moment, and they don't have to do it themselves anyway. This is also the reason why many old leaders in many organizations like to come over from time to time after retirement to give pointers on their work. Some companies are like a tree full of monkeys, looking down are smiling faces and looking up are butts.
In addition, some people are really addicted to overtime, and they have a posture of "unending". In such a situation, we should use the following methods to adjust ourselves:
1. Rational efforts to filter toxicity
Rational efforts are indispensable for us to meet the default needs of the mind, and the existence of the mind is to help us understand the world systematically and logically. We need to find a long-term thing to stabilize the rational needs of our mind, it can be your career, or a long-term hobby. In order to survive, it is not difficult to find something that requires you to analyze and learn with your brain on a long-term and continuous basis. All jobs meet this condition. The difficulty is that once people get used to using their brains, they will overuse them. It's our nature, because our nature is infinite and always needs more. But the brain is just a tool, you need to control this degree by yourself.
2. Sensual love flows freely
After controlling your brain not to think wildly, on the other hand, we have to make the mind active. The nourishment of the soul is love, so we need to spend some time learning to live with the soul. Because your heart has all your joy, but also all your dark and untold secrets. Learn to explore your heart and open those black boxes. Bravely face the pain of the past and heal yourself.
No matter when, it is good to have the motivation to pay, and to have the corresponding interest-driven drive, can it be worth the money.