Five differences between people with high emotional intelligence and people with low emotional intelligence, what is your emotional intelligence?

Regarding the issue of emotional intelligence, everyone has different opinions, but in my opinion, the core difference between people with high emotional intelligence and people with low emotional intelligence lies in the following five points.

【1】Speaking in a song or straight? ——People with high emotional intelligence are always so pleasant to listen to, even if it is difficult to hear, they will express it in a euphemistic way to make people accept it. People with low emotional intelligence speak directly, without considering your feelings and your acceptance level. The difference is very obvious.

【2】Do you work in a gentle or round way? ——When doing things, people with high emotional intelligence usually play a roundabout way, which will make people feel less utilitarian, that is, we usually talk about doing things smoothly, while for people with low emotional intelligence, they are very honest when doing things. , it is often difficult to accept, and even a corner will not be turned.

【3】Is it true or false? ——When a person with high emotional intelligence is a human being, the virtual and the real are combined, but the cost is higher. This is called a good lie. And those people with low EQ are real people, and a good deed can make his rude death unpleasant, so it is easier to offend people.

[4] Is doing things sincere or fake? ——People with high emotional intelligence still pay attention to cause and effect, and always give people a very appropriate feeling. He can always appear on occasions where he needs to appear, and he can always avoid embarrassing moments. Although it makes people feel hypocritical, but in his heart he is willing to deal with him. You also know in your heart that he is hypocritical, but on the surface you can talk about the past, but it saves everyone a lot of face.

[5] Is it easy or difficult to communicate? - People with high emotional intelligence make people easy to associate with. Always warm to people. People with low emotional intelligence are not so easy to accept others, and it is more difficult to deal with them.