People who often say these four sentences have low emotional intelligence. Do you often say it?

Whether it is in the workplace or in life, it is indispensable to communicate with people. In the process of communicating with people, it is a very test of a person's intelligence and emotional intelligence. In general, people with high emotional intelligence will have many friends, and people with low emotional intelligence will lose many friends. Emotionally intelligent people say and do things that make others feel comfortable. People with low emotional intelligence are different.

【1】The angry words you say when you are ignored

Whether it is in life or in the workplace, you have to remember that people who care about you will not ignore your feelings, so when you are ignored, just know that your relationship has not reached, and you need to care about each other very much . Then there is no need to consider your feelings. Don't complain even if you are ignored by others, don't say something very hurt, then make yourself stronger. Only when you are strong enough will others see you.

【2】The nonsense you say when you are frustrated

In the workplace, no one's life is smooth. Even if we understand this truth, when we encounter setbacks, we will be very depressed and even talk nonsense. These are venting emotions for themselves, but psychological depression for the listener. So after a setback, there are people by your side to accompany you, you must learn to self-reflect, analyze with the other party where you are wrong, and you must get out of the setback as soon as possible.

[3] Envy and jealous of the nonsense that others say

When you see a coworker get a promotion and a raise. Envy and jealousy is a very normal psychological state, but if you are too envious and jealous of others. To laugh at others from time to time, it will appear too stingy. There is really no need for this. First, deal with your own affairs well, and then ask yourself, if one day you become an official, or if you will succeed in this matter. How will others see you?

【4】Some big words when you are affirmed

When you are doing this, you are affirmed by colleagues and leaders. You must have been very successful in this matter and appreciated by your leaders and colleagues. But at this time, because of others' affirmation of you, you will become arrogant and lose yourself. Sometimes they will say some big words, which will only make more people hate you and stay away from you. Be sure to remember that it is not your own efforts that make you successful, but the help of many others. Others can help you or push you down.