Five classic ways to deal with villains

No matter how capable you are, there is no way to stop the villain from moving around you. The villain is the villain. You must find a way to deal with them, in order to completely solve the villain's troubles with you. Let me share a few classics with you. The method is for your reference, and I hope it will be helpful to you.

[1] Look and then divide.

If you want to deal with villains, first of all, you must distinguish who the villains are, and how do you want to deal with normal people? This requires you to practice hard. This is the first step in the battle of my villain's heart. Many people made mistakes in the first step, and did not classify villains seriously, thus committing strategic mistakes. The mistakes made by yourself have turned into a lot of effort, and the result has no effect, so be sure to classify the villains, and take different measures according to the different types of villains.

[2] Instead, hit back.

When fighting against villains, you must have enough patience. At the beginning, you can’t have conflicts all the time, but you must be uncharacteristically more tolerant and tolerant towards villains, and after you understand the purpose of villains, In the counterattack, the effect will be much better. If there is a frontal conflict with the villain at the beginning, nine out of ten, they will misunderstand others, and instead they will fall into moral condemnation.

[3] Angry and expressing a position.

When the villain really annoys you, don't be in a hurry to be ruthless, but express your attitude, that is, take the method of first benevolence, negotiate and communicate with them clearly, and don't forget us for what purpose? It must be reconciliation, not the intensification of contradictions. The reason why the villain is taken advantage of by many people is because he has no attitude, so we should fight with the villain with our attitude. Usually, the villain will reconcile with you, knowing that you are not easy to mess with , will give up on you.

[4] Profit and stay away.

This is the basic principle of the relationship with the villain, that is, when encountering problems, don't have too much ties with the villain. You also know that I am a villain. If you have any interests with him again , In fact, you feel sorry for yourself and cause trouble for yourself. Even if you have to have some contact and cooperation at work, you must show your strength, and you must not let the villain take advantage of it. This is a villain. The basic attitude to get along with, without this attitude, you will always be passive.

【5】Long (I have made progress) and win by myself.

The reason why the villain in the world bullies you must be related to your own strength. If you have made great progress and your strength is relatively strong, the villain will not dare to mess with you at all, and you will naturally win him. This is the most fundamental solution.