The poorer people are, the less they can save these three kinds of money, otherwise they will get poorer.
Sometimes saving money is not a good thing in life. Many people will find that the more they save, the poorer they are when they save money. In life, there are some places where money cannot be saved, and when people are extremely poor, there are three kinds of money that cannot be saved. The reason why you are poor is because you save money.
[1] Don't save money for gifts
This society is all about exchanges of courtesy. If someone gives you a gift this time, then you should give someone else some gift next time. If someone gave you a gift this time, then I must give someone else a gift next time. Only people who know how to communicate with each other will get better and better. I am afraid that some people will be selfish enough to not want to spend money to give things to others after others give them things. If this is the case, then your popularity will get worse and worse, because no one likes to deal with stingy people. .
Everyone likes to deal with generous people, especially when we are developing our business and expanding our contacts, we need to know how to deal with etiquette. Reciprocal exchanges can help our business develop faster and take our business to a higher level. Therefore, we must not save the gift money that cannot be saved. Otherwise, if you save it, you will save yourself poor. Only when you are generous will others be more willing to communicate with you. No matter how poor your financial situation is, you cannot save money for gifts.
The poorer people are, the less they can save these three kinds of money, otherwise they will get poorer.
[2] Don't save money for inviting others to dinner
When you go out to eat with others, you must spend the money you should spend, especially when paying, you must take the initiative to check out, because no one wants to deal with a stingy person. Maybe you saved a meal this time, but next time no one wants to make friends with you. Some people are particularly aggrieved and say that it's not that I don't invite others to dinner, but that I really have no money, I am really poor. The more people with this kind of mentality, the poorer they will live forever. You must remember that the more money you have, the more generous you are. Where you should spend your own money, you must spend your own money. You will not meet a particularly stingy person who has many friends. The more stingy a person is, the less friends he has, and the more generous he is, the more friends he has and the wider his connections. When inviting others to dinner, you must spend the money that should be spent. Never use poverty or lack of money as an excuse, which will only make you more and more poor.
The poorer people are, the less they can save these three kinds of money, otherwise they will get poorer.
【3】Don't save money to buy clothes for yourself
Even if you have no money, then when you go out to meet people, buy yourself a few sets of suitable clothes, decent clothes. You can only leave a good impression on others if you dress up well. Especially in some important occasions, or to meet some important people or customers, you should dress yourself up more properly. Remember not to be sloppy, if you give others a bad image today, they will never want to deal with you next time. Because everyone's first impression of others is very important, so the first impression must make a better impression on others, and dress yourself clean and neat.
When we meet with customers, the clothing also belongs to our equipment, and the clothing is equivalent to our shirt. As long as we have the spirit to dress ourselves up, then things are half the success. And dressing yourself up cleanly is also a sign of respect for others. If the first time you met, the impression you left on others was sloppy, and others could not eat when they saw you, then who would want to see you again next time? So you must not save money on buying clothes. Even if you are poor, you must play yourself well and dress up like a person.