Extremely selfish people tend not to be fussy, but have these three characteristics
Interpersonal relationships have their own hidden secrets for everyone, especially after encountering some troublesome things and troublesome people, they will add a lot of unexpected troubles to their ordinary life. If you find in your work and life People with the following three characteristics are generally extremely selfish. In the process of interacting with them, everyone should be cautious and cautious, be careful and be careful.
[1] Excessive prevention of persecution paranoia - selfish people are used to taking advantage of others, and in their minds, others will also like to take advantage of themselves, so they are also very afraid of others taking advantage of them in the same way Occupying their interests will lead to an over-prevention and sensitive mentality, that is, over-prevention of persecution paranoia.
One of the biggest features of this trait is to treat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain. You have done a lot of bad things and caused a lot of trouble to others. You will also judge that others treat you in the same way, so you are afraid every day. People seem to be calm on the surface, but in fact their hearts are full of infinite sense of fear, and there is no sense of security at all. This characteristic is very easy to show, so when we observe this special characteristic of this person, Learn to maintain a proper sense of proportion and distance from him.
[2] Moral kidnapping - they like to use the name of righteousness and morality to force others to give, but what they are best at is the act of generosity and self-interest. When it comes to their own dedication, look at him Running faster than anyone else, shouting benevolence, righteousness and morality every day.
People with this characteristic are sometimes dumbfounding. He regards the so-called benevolence and morality as a moral standard that binds you. If you do not obey, he will intensify and further slander your reputation. In this way Forcing you to submit, the more you encounter this situation, the more you must firmly reject and oppose your attitude, otherwise you will fall into the endless trouble of arguing with him.
[3] Ruthless - it doesn't involve his interests, it's easy to say anything, as long as his interests are involved, he has no sympathy for you at all, no matter how good it is, it's useless. This kind of person is also called Cold-blooded animals, it's best not to mess with them.
The so-called ruthless, that is, no matter how good you are to him, and no matter how helpful you are, once he involves a problem of interest, he will kick you away unceremoniously, and there is no human touch. No, people with this characteristic are indeed self-centered and selfish people, but too much involvement with this kind of person will eventually make you unable to eat and walk away. When you regret it, it is also because you have suffered When the loss was huge, many people did not shed tears without seeing the coffin, and did not give up until the Yellow River.
