You can take any losses at work, but you can't take these three losses, otherwise you will not be able to hold your head up for the rest of your life.
"Suffering is a blessing" is deeply imprinted in everyone's mind,
But this is premised: you say,
The company handed you a project, you worked so hard for so long,
However, the leader's name must be signed in front of the final report.
Taking this small loss is actually to avoid taking more big losses.
So we say that suffering is a blessing.
But those who blindly suffer and endure will become soft persimmons when they eat.
Therefore, in the workplace, there is a limit to suffering losses.
These three kinds of losses must not be eaten.
You can take any losses at work, but you can't take these three losses, otherwise you will not be able to hold your head up for the rest of your life.
- Losses involving your significant interests
Everyone has their own interests,
Although sometimes many people are willing to cater to other people's ideas,
But that doesn't mean you can ignore your own interests.
to give in on something not very important,
It's a very emotional demeanor,
But when it comes to your core interests, you must not give in.
Isn't that what my best friend Lingling is like?
When a leader arranges a task, others will find a way to shirk it.
So some tricky jobs will fall on Lingling.
Lingling often sends me messages at 2 am complaining,
If you stay up late and stay up for a long time, your energy is not good, and there are some mistakes in your work.
It's hard to compare her performance to others. I asked her to change her job a long time ago.
But she always thought it was troublesome to find a job,
Later, I accidentally swiped the video of Ganji on Douyin,
I feel that the main job is to fill out my resume and I want to try it out.
As a result, the efficiency of the platform is very high, and now Lingling has entered a new company early.
In the workplace, if you don't defend your own interests,
Who else will take the initiative to put meat in your mouth,
So this kind of loss must not be eaten.
You can take any losses at work, but you can't take these three losses, otherwise you will not be able to hold your head up for the rest of your life.
- The targeted losses must not be eaten
any team or company,
have their own rules of the game,
Often this results in an uneven distribution of pay.
The roommate I shared with me encountered this situation:
They worked overtime every day to complete a project a few days ago,
Then the above gave a lot of bonuses,
After the leader of their team took the bulk, the rest was allocated to individuals,
As a result, he found that he got less than others,
And when the project is in progress, it is often assigned to some very complex,
A lot of work. In addition to the usual things,
He felt he was being targeted and resigned.
Later, I was idle at home for half a month and did not work, and I also borrowed money from me.
I had to ask him to look for a job on websites like Ganji.com.
I also hope that he will find a company with a more mature management system.
Fortunately, there are more jobs there and it is faster to start jobs.
The rent was finally paid the other day.
Later, when he invited me to dinner, he said that the new company was fair.
If he always made concessions at the previous company's losses,
He will soon become a dispensable fringe figure.
You can take any losses at work, but you can't take these three losses, otherwise you will not be able to hold your head up for the rest of your life.
- The loss of being used all the time
When dealing with office relationships,
There is also friction between people.
Some people gain more, while others may suffer losses.
Most people will silently suffer some small losses in order to maintain relationships.
This is all normal.
But some people are very passive when they suffer.
often used by others,
At this point, the concession seems unnecessary.
Sometimes you feel like giving in out of good intentions,
But I never thought about it, but I fell into the trap of others and jumped into the pit dug by others.
At this time, you will scold a wolf-hearted dog.
I feel very wronged, but since I suffered a loss once,
It is necessary to learn to have a long memory, and people still need to keep a little mind.
In the workplace, some losses are uncontrollable.
Therefore, when we suffer a loss, we can only say "a loss is a blessing",
But some losses are controllable, and we must be careful to avoid them.
What other losses should you not eat?
Hope you can share it with everyone in the comment section!