No matter how good the relationship between colleagues is, if you don't pay attention to these three points, you will become strangers sooner or later.
Everyone mixes in the workplace, I believe that there are good friends around them, and the relationship between friends is not the same, especially the relationship between colleagues; when colleagues get along, there may be some trivial things that make the relationship between colleagues It is also common in the workplace that the relationship breaks down, and even between colleagues It is caused by some details of getting along with you. The following editor will share with you three details that need to be paid attention to when getting along with colleagues. Friends who want to know more, hurry up and take a look with the editor!
> > 1. Take it for granted that your friends help you >
Everyone is unavoidable to ask their friends for help at work, but the reasons are also varied. Many workers feel that the relationship between colleagues is very good, and it is a matter of course to help themselves; I have encountered such a thing, a colleague with a good relationship asked me for help, but this matter was beyond my ability, so I refused decisively, causing the other party to be a little unhappy on the spot, and said, The two of us have such a good relationship, and we still don’t help the Lord. I didn’t refute when I heard this, and I didn’t take the initiative to help her after that. Everyone is mixed in the workplace, and you must understand that you can’t do whatever you want to your colleagues just because you have a good relationship. , a good relationship does not become the capital that must help you. Others help you is a favor, not helping you is a duty. If it exceeds the ability of others, you are a strong man. It's right.
> > 2. You can’t be unbelievable just because the relationship is good >
There is an old colleague Wang Gang in the company, who gives everyone the impression of poor integrity; I remember one time when other colleagues asked Wang Gang to do business, Wang Gang agreed to someone else's request without thinking much, and later changed his mind temporarily on the way to help and released the other party's pigeon; Several times, we went to dinner together at noon, and Wang Gang was late for half an hour. It seems that this is killing him. Later, he offended all his colleagues, almost everyone around him, including me, and gradually moved away from him; later when he played Wang Gang with other colleagues, other people's evaluation of Wang Gang was ten sentences. Nine sentences are false, and even none of them can be believed. The reason why Wang Gang caused this kind of solution is because he doesn't care about the relationship with everyone; therefore, everyone can't do something just because they have a good relationship with colleagues. Unbelievable things.
> > 3. Don't ask too much just because you have a good relationship with your colleagues >
My friend Zhang Ming is a good person, but the living conditions at home are not very good. Fortunately, I have met some good friends and received a lot of help in my daily life, but Zhang Ming does not understand that others can help you temporarily, but not The truth of helping you all your life; Zhang Ming often goes to friends for help, and there are things almost every day, this thing, and that thing for a while, anyway, it is an endless thing, and the people around him start to hate Zhang Ming gradually; Some things are not a big deal, and there is not a lot of money, but often this happens, no one can stand Zhang Ming's actions, so the people around him gradually move away from Zhang Ming; the reality of human nature is like this, no matter how good the relationship between friends is. In fact, the loss in the heart is far greater than the loss in the material. It is necessary to understand that the most important thing between friends is equality and importance; therefore, everyone should not be too much just because the relationship between colleagues is good. Let the other person help you, or you will only damage your co-worker relationship.