Zhang Han took off his suit and sat on the sofa in a daze with the TV on. He was in a particularly bad mood just after attending the class reunion. Ben embraced and relived the love of classmates with his old classmates. He didn't want to party, it was a mess, he didn't talk about showing off his luxury car income, he didn't talk about toasting and asking for business cards, and married men and women ran aside to relive their first love. Many classmates came to set up relationships after hearing that Zhang Han was in the agency. Alas, this kind of party is really irritating, Zhang Han said that he will never participate in class reunions in the future.

Too much vanity, classmates sour taste

Everyone has the feeling of "homecoming". Facing the reunion of former classmates, it is nostalgic, but in fact, it is more to satisfy their own vanity. Rich people put on designer clothes, watches, and bags. Powerful people talk about work in the unit, put on a pretense, and wait for others to support them. A class reunion turns into a competition meeting. People who have no money and no power, and those who do not have a good job remain silent. They are embarrassed to watch others brag and make themselves uncomfortable.

And those who want to talk about old feelings directly become a platform for married men and women to engage in ambiguous. Participating in such a classmate reunion, I can't find the feeling of youth commemoration at all, but it adds to the embarrassment. It is better not to get together, and I can still have good memories of the past classmates in my heart, instead of recalling that my youth was full of vanity. middle-aged men and women.

Can't improve feelings, no need to party

Even if it is a normal classmate dinner, you will find that you don't know what to talk about. After these years, everyone has different experiences and development, different education levels, different levels of life, different values, and many things are difficult to talk about together. , and playing the game is also very embarrassing. For example, classmates who stay in their hometown and speak vulgar language, classmates with high cultural literacy, classmates who are still at the grassroots level, and classmates who work hard at high-level, etc. Although they do not mean to look down on each other, it is not appropriate to joke like before. .

At the party, the most afraid of being persuaded to drink, and it is difficult to refuse, it will damage the body, and it will be laughed at for poor drinking. It is also difficult to enhance the friendship between classmates at the class reunion once a few years, and it is even more impossible to climb the relationship through this. After the reunion, everyone returns to their own lives, and no one will take it seriously. So there is really no need to participate in the class reunion. After experiencing it once, you will be disillusioned and do not want to participate in the second time.

Care about the feelings of classmates, usually contact more

If you really care about your classmates, it is useless to go to one or two class reunions. If you have really good classmates and friends, you should keep in touch with each other more often, chat with each other about each other's life, and complain about each other when you encounter problems. This is the right thing to do. way of communication.

The so-called person who knows me means I am worried, and the person who does not know me means what I want. Everyone needs to have friends, but it is good to have two or three friends. It takes time and energy to maintain friendship. If you just want to satisfy your vanity, work hard in your life to gain respect from others, and don’t show off at class reunions. A momentary refreshment will only arouse others’ disgust. If you really want to get together, a small gathering of a few good classmates is fine. There is no need for a big gathering. It can only be messed up when there are many people. A few people have a deep chat, the atmosphere is better, and the conversation can continue.