Don't tell your colleagues about these three things, it's not stingy but self-defense, it's not too late
At the end of last month, two colleagues in our company were criticized by the leader at the end of the month because they did not write the work log on time. The leader asked them to make up for it. The two people were not satisfied with the leader's practice and discussed it together. Do not write a work log, although the two secretly agreed, but Zhang secretly made up for the leader at night; in reality, there are many such cases, after all, the relationship between colleagues is not as important as their own interests, you must understand A good relationship with colleagues cannot be easily thrown away, especially the following three things, let alone discussing with colleagues. Only by learning to shut up can you protect yourself. Friends who want to learn, hurry up and learn together with the editor. !
> > 1. You can't tell your colleagues about the opportunities you encounter. >
When leaders give themselves more benefits or resources in their work, I believe that those smart friends will not betray the trust of the leaders in themselves, but silently cooperate with the leaders in their work, but there are also many friends who are born unable to hide. I always want to show off this kind of thing in front of everyone; Wang Li from our department got a place to study at the head office a few days ago, which was given to Zhang Li by the leader in private, although Zhang Li cherishes this opportunity very much I had a chance, but I couldn't resist showing it off in my spare time, so I secretly told my good friend. After knowing the news, my friend felt very uncomfortable, and even went to the leadership's office after work to ask why the opportunity was only given to Zhang Li. Alone, although things were suppressed by the leader, the matter of giving Zhang Li the quota privately could not be hidden. He thought that Zhang Li was too impetuous, and the leader never gave Zhang Li any resources in the future work. , In fact, in the real workplace, many people have the experience of Zhang Li. Don't think that good friends will bless you. Only by hiding this kind of thing can you truly turn the opportunity into your own; so, You can't tell your colleagues about the opportunities you encounter.
> > 2. Your own network resources do not need to be shared with colleagues >
After being in the workplace for many years, everyone will definitely accumulate their own contacts. You must understand that these are your own resources, and this is also the capital for you to stand in the workplace. Once you freely share your contacts with your friends, you will be very happy. It is easy to be poached by colleagues, especially friends who work in sales; it is necessary to understand that no matter how good the relationship with colleagues is, you can't just share your customer information with others, especially potential big customers before closing a deal, it is absolutely not allowed to let colleagues I know; those smart salespeople will maintain a good personal relationship when they just meet a big customer, and even establish uninterrupted benefit sharing. Once you fool your colleagues to know, maybe your colleagues will have enough relationships. Go directly to your customers, no matter how good the relationship between the customer and you, your colleagues will benefit others, and your customer will become someone else's customer; you must understand this customer relationship, or customer information, in the company It cannot be shared with colleagues. After all, colleagues are in a competitive relationship with you. Only by hiding your own resources will it be more beneficial to your own performance. Therefore, you do not need to share your personal network resources with colleagues.
> > 3. Your own ideas and ambitions cannot be shared with colleagues >
It is not a bad thing for everyone to have some ideas about their own work, or to have a little ambition. Once this information is casually shared with the people around it, it will become a bad thing. Not all people give up their immediate interests for the sake of their colleagues; when When you want to do a great job at work, or plan to replace the leader, just follow your inner plan and practice it. Never tell others about these ideas; when your colleagues and you are competing for the same thing , then the other party will easily betray you; in fact, if you want to better protect yourself, there is no need to tell others about these things in your heart. Once you show off your ideas in front of your colleagues, others will cause you trouble, after all Everyone likes to shoot the first bird; you must understand that you should hide your ambitions or ideas deep in your heart and do things well in silence; when I used to run new media in school, I used to choose good choices I shared the problem with others, but was taken away by others and used it. Later, I understood the truth. Therefore, I should not share my thoughts and ambitions with my colleagues.