These three words of a colleague are three pits. If you are not vigilant, you will suffer a loss.

In the workplace, if you want to walk more steadily, go better, and go farther, you should pay attention in the process of talking and communicating with colleagues on a daily basis, because what many people say or do seem to be It's good for you, it's praising you, it's complimenting you, in fact, this is a hole dug for you, if you're not careful, if you don't pay attention to what others say, you will jump into someone else's in the pit.

1. Hello people, please help me finish it.

At work, it is inevitable that everyone will help and support each other in their work. At this time, you are in good faith, helping others to do things, and helping others to do unfinished work. However, others will depend on you at this time, and they will tell you that you are a good person. I will finish my work. If you believe this sentence, you will really help others to finish the work. If the work If you do it well, there is no problem. If there is a problem with your work, then you will take the blame. At that time, you will realize that good people are not rewarded. Therefore, in the workplace, when helping others, you must only teach others how to do it. Never help others by yourself and do their work.

2. The relationship between you and the leader is getting closer, help me to talk to the leader about the salary increase.

In the process of practical operation, there are often some people who just saw the relationship between you and the boss and the boss. When you get close, he will approach you, pester you, and ask you to help him find the boss and the boss. Say good things in front of him and give him a chance to get a raise. If you believe his words at this time, you go to the old boss or the leader and say good things about his salary increase. If the boss and the boss don't give you this face at this time, you will feel your The heart is very hurt, and on the other hand, if the leader gives you this face, the leader will blame you for being meddlesome. Therefore, don't rely on the leader and the boss to get closer at work, and just go and say good things about the promotion and salary increase of others.

3. This work can only be done by you, because this is your specialty.

Seeing this sentence, I believe that your partners have encountered such things in their daily work, no matter whether others are sincerely complimenting you, or sincerely flattering you, or sincerely asking you for help. If you can't help others' flattery, others' compliments, and other people's demands, you go to help others and finish the matter from beginning to end. In the end, you're half-tired, and others are there to enjoy themselves leisurely, and the number of times If you have more than one, you will not only hinder the development of others, but at the same time others will say that you are showing off. For this reason, at work, do not jump into this pit.