When people reach middle age, they can accomplish nothing, and they should not do these kinds of jobs. The more impatient they are, the more difficult the future will be.
A friend in the background sent a private message: "I am nearly forty this year. I used to work in a certain factory. Due to the impact of the environment, the factory laid off workers on a large scale in order to protect itself. I lost my job. Because I have no talent, I have not yet found a suitable job. , I have a car loan and a home loan to repay every month, I am very anxious, what should I do?"
For a long time, the mid-life crisis has been a topic that many professionals cannot escape. There is an old saying: "At thirty you stand, at forty you will not be confused, at fifty you will know the mandate of Heaven". However, not everyone in their 30s can find their own way forward, and it brings pressure and confusion to more people.
Just like the friend who left a message, he has no special skills and is highly replaceable. He handed over the good years to the assembly line and the factory, thinking that he can go on in this industry. However, ideals are often full and reality is often very skinny. In this era of fierce competition, many large enterprises have declared bankruptcy overnight. In contrast, small enterprises will face greater pressure to survive. By analogy, in order to survive, employers will definitely find ways to increase revenue and reduce expenditure in all aspects. Saving human resource costs has become the first choice of many employers, and layoffs have become a must for employers.
When people reach middle age, they can accomplish nothing, and they should not do these kinds of jobs. The more impatient they are, the more difficult the future will be.
How to deal with this situation? Here are some suggestions:
- Strive to become the top person in the industry
The so-called "specialization in the art industry" means that no matter what kind of work you are engaged in, you must be as close as possible to the top people in the position you are engaged in.
In other words, the better you are, the more options you have.
Second, learn a skill
If you don't have the skills to do it, I suggest you learn a technique.
Learning technology can be based on your interests and hobbies, and you can also choose based on personal income in the industry. You have to believe that compared with ordinary workers, skilled workers naturally have more rights to choose.
- Unemployment is not scary, what is scary is losing your mind
Unemployment is not terrible. Being laid off shows that his ability is not enough to meet the needs of employers. Even if you are middle-aged, you must not lose your mind in this situation. Once you lose your mind, you will fall into anxiety. The most important thing you should do is to deal with it rationally.
Finding the reasons for unemployment, then making a career plan, and finding the next career orientation is what should be done.
When people reach middle age, they can accomplish nothing, and they should not do these kinds of jobs. The more impatient they are, the more difficult the future will be.
As a middle-aged person, although there is a lot of pressure in all aspects, and you need a good job and an ideal income, you must make a long-term plan. Even if you achieve nothing, don't choose these kinds of jobs, otherwise it will become more and more difficult in the future:
A single-skilled job
Although a job with a single skill is not strenuous and easy to get started, at the same time, this type of work has the following shortcomings:
Substitutability is strong;
easy to be eliminated;
That is to say, many people are competent for the job you are engaged in, and the greater the competition you face, the longer you stay in such a job, the more time you waste. The choices are getting smaller and smaller.
When people reach middle age, they can accomplish nothing, and they should not do these kinds of jobs. The more impatient they are, the more difficult the future will be.
- Work that often stays up late
When people reach middle age, they must pay attention to their own body. At this time, not only the pressure in all aspects increases, but with the increase of age, the resistance will gradually deteriorate.
Therefore, you must not choose a job that often stays up late, and do not overdraw your body. The body is the capital, and with a strong body, you can do more things. Don't choose a job that often stays up late, you are also responsible for yourself.
When people reach middle age, they can accomplish nothing, and they should not do these kinds of jobs. The more impatient they are, the more difficult the future will be.
- Work that only talks about feelings but not interests
If you are engaged in a job, the boss often talks to you about feelings instead of interests, and it is recommended to leave as soon as possible.
You have to know that you are middle-aged now, not a teenager. You don't have so much time and energy to listen to your boss draw cakes for you. Instead, you should pursue practicality. Dare to talk about interests, not just feelings.
Don't foolishly work hard for the employer without talking about the pursuit. The reality must be realistic. The employer itself is mutually beneficial to the employee. Since you have the corresponding contribution, you should have the corresponding income. People are sinister , don't be too kind.