Women in the workplace, please keep in mind: lazy men are used to it
My friend complained to me, saying that her family's man did nothing when he came home, did not cook, wash dishes, wash clothes, and clean, and became a "baby" who "reaches out for clothes, and opens his mouth for food". Without hesitation, I replied, "It's all yours." After listening to the friend, the expression is very unnatural. I muttered, "I want to find comfort with you, but you put salt on my wound instead." Seeing that she was angry, I hurriedly took her hand and said, "Don't be angry, I will analyze the reasons with you, listen to me. Listen to this theory."
Why do you say lazy men are used to it? There are three reasons:
Reason one: traditional concepts are deeply ingrained in women's hearts. Since ancient times in China, there has been a concept of "men lead the outside and women lead the inside". Today, women have broken away from the only title of "housewife" in the changing times, entered the workplace, and established "professional white-collar workers". At the same time, household chores are also not left behind. On the contrary, it is a man. Some of them don’t get along well outside, and they call themselves uncles at home. The idea of chauvinism is deeply rooted. No matter how hard and tired, women think that it is their job to go home to cook and take care of children, and never thought that their men should also participate in domestic labor.
Reason 2: Women dislike men who do not do well. Some men feel bad for women and are willing to share housework with women. Women don't have the patience to see men work hard, and they dislike men's slow work, unclean dishes, and bad meals. Over time, men are unwilling to do housework.
Reason three: women are too capable. In order to show their abilities in front of men, some women want to be "good wives and good mothers" in the eyes of men, and strive to become an almighty person in front of men, so they take over all the housework in the family. Indulged in the days when men praised "my wife is the most capable" whenever they met, I was reluctant to think about Shu. Finally, one day I got bored with work, housework, and children couldn't handle it, so I despised my man as a "low-energy child" in life.
Smart women know how to nurture men. This kind of woman is a man's military adviser at work, making suggestions for men's work; in life, she is a man's teacher, guiding men to participate in the daily life of the family. Equality in the family and mutual assistance in work is the most harmonious relationship between men and women.
