Knowing people: attend a party and find that the other party has these three manifestations, don't make friends
Recently, in the forum, the author saw the experience of such a class reunion. During the class reunion, a monitor asked the boys to pay 100 yuan more, while the girls shared 100 yuan less. The boys quit angrily when they saw the amount. They all felt that the monitor's actions were unreasonable, and they didn't explain it to everyone in advance. It was just a suggestion made by the monitor to satisfy his vanity after being drunk and to gain the appreciation and admiration of female classmates, so many boys felt that the monitor was actually doing it on purpose. And because of this, everyone is reluctant to have any closer contact with the monitor, nor do they want to listen to the monitor's explanation.
In recent years, many young people want to enhance their relationship by drinking and socializing after entering social work. When everyone gathers together, whether it is relatives, friends or classmates, they can actually drink and socialize in their spare time, but in the author's view Come on, today's class reunions or some company dinners have become activities of mutual praise. It is difficult for everyone to go well at the dinner party, but it will be very tormented, and when making friends, you will find that some friends are not worth it at all. Deep friendship is also recommended when you attend a party, if you find that your classmates or colleagues have the following three manifestations, then don't make deep friendships, because the other party will definitely think that you are in a dilemma.
First, the villain who always thinks about his own interests, in fact, at the wine table, because he has no connections and no ability, he is often selfish and ambitious, and these self-centered villains are actually the key to the dinner. Every moment will do everything possible to show their selfishness, so everyone must learn to observe their words and expressions when attending a dinner party. Some villains are not worthy of deep friendship, because their realm and pattern are relatively low, they do not know how to take care of you, and they do not know how to take care of you. Understand the principles and bottom line of dealing with people.
Second, like aggressive villains, they don’t actually consider other people’s feelings at all during dinner parties, because these villains are smart enough to drink and drink, always maliciously pouring alcohol, and malicious persuasion will make them very disgusted. , Smart people will never persuade alcohol, and never maliciously drink alcohol, because they can empathize and understand the essence of drinking and socializing.
Therefore, when you have a company dinner or a class reunion, you must develop good habits. Don't threaten others because you think you have the ability and the right.
Third, the villain who likes to flatter often does not know how to be grateful. There will always be some villains who are incompetent at the wine table, and their emotional intelligence is very low. If you speak, then these villains who completely disregard the leader's face may be expelled, because they have no wisdom and no emotional intelligence. If they toast casually at the wine table, they will naturally offend the leader and become fools in the dinner.
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