A person's emotional intelligence depends on these five points

To see whether a person's EQ is high or low, we don't need to look at too many factors, and don't look at it so complicated. We can judge from the following five points. You can also do self-control to see what your EQ belongs to. Happening?

[1] See if you can eat other people's words.

The so-called can eat other people's words, that is, when others say bad things, they will not be violent, nor will they refute them in time, but calmly deal with such things. When you lose your temper, you blushed when you play with others. Obviously, this is a problem of one's emotional intelligence.

【2】Secondly, do you understand whether you know how to think about others.

A person with high emotional intelligence must be someone who knows how to think about others. He must make others feel comfortable, happy, satisfied, and fulfilled when dealing with him. He will always save face. It is very good for others, and when people deal with him, they will always feel a kind of honor. From this, it can also be seen that a person's emotional intelligence is high or low.

[3] The third is to see if the temper can be controlled.

A person with high emotional intelligence must be a master of temper control, which is what we usually call emotional management. How can a person who can not even manage his own emotions well, how can he have a high emotional intelligence? Most of the time, we just don’t want to admit this reality. We can check it for ourselves, how are we doing in this regard?

[4] Fourth, see whether the conflict resolution can be effective.

On the issue of dealing with contradictions, a person's emotional intelligence is more fully reflected. People with high emotional intelligence will always resolve conflicts, always turn big things into trivial matters, and finally turn this matter into nothing, or even a blessing in disguise , because there are some contradictions between the two people, the last two people have a particularly good relationship.

[5] The fifth is to see if the timing of advance and retreat can be grasped.

People with high emotional intelligence are very able to judge the timing of advancing and retreating. When it is time for them to retreat, they will never rashly advance. In this case, it will give other people a very bad feeling, and it will seriously damage the relationship between people.